Articles by our experts in love, dating, sex and marriage
7 Step Guide to Never Having an Experience of God

7 Step Guide to Never Having an Experience of God

Are you one of those people who secretly wish you believed in God? Or are you one of those people who believe in God in an abstract way rather than a personal way? Are you actually doing everything you can to never have an experience of God, while denying that this is what you are doing? Now you can continue your spiritual disconnection on purpose, rather than doing it unconsciously! 1. Keep your mind closed to learning about yourself

How To Spice Up Your Relationship: Be Good Friends

How To Spice Up Your Relationship: Be Good Friends

A friend is someone who has your back.  Someone who knows you and likes you and regards you with affection. Someone who sees the positive side of you even when you don't.  It is someone you enjoy. And when this is reciprocated there is a felt sense of 'weness' versus 'what can I get out of this?"  It's not just about me but also what might you be feeling and needing. We take the other into consideration. And this can make a difference in your love life.

Solving the Secrets of Your Man

Solving the Secrets of Your Man

I recently discovered the work on Alison Armstrong – who for 15 years has been honing her message on the important differences in men and women that manifest in the heterosexual marriage in typical and often frustrating ways.  Her wisdom is found in the freedom that comes when we understand each other instead of blame and accuse each other.  Last week I was sharing some of these ideas with a small group of grad therapy students.  One of the men who is newly married, lit up and said, “Oh my gosh, that happene

Thanks Anyway, Jerry Maguire!

Thanks Anyway, Jerry Maguire!

I’m not a big Valentine’s Day fan. Not because I don’t like a little bit of romance, flowers, or chocolates it’s just that I don’t like the Hallmark Card, bad stuffed animal version of romance that lands on one day a year. Can’t we be romantic more frequently or at least not on the same day as everyone else? Call me the romance scrooge but I really don’t like a lot of our cultures versions of love and romance. Maybe I’m a skeptic but if Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries can’t work it out then what chance do the rest of us have?

Improve Your Sex Life in 10 minutes a day!

Improve Your Sex Life in 10 minutes a day!

People are pretty busy these days, and I bet you are too. There’s always so much to do that actually taking the time to go out and learn how to keep your sex life hot, is a fantasy in and of itself. You might not even have a high quality sex shop nearby that offers live classes, so it’s only been books and DVDs to show you some tricks and tips.

Yes, You Can!

Yes, You Can!

Do people limit themselves?  When asking that question hundreds of times the answer is invariably yes.  One of the reasons coaching is so effective is that the coach is completely focused on the client and the success of the client – the coach believes in the client’s abilities.  With that kind of unconditional support the client is empowered to move past their own doubts and the concerns that arise.