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I See Married People

I See Married People

I SEE MARRIED PEOPLE I see married people. Everywhere. And they’re happy, at least to the naked eye. What goes on behind closed doors is anybody’s guess but that’s probably just the cynic in me talking. Truth be told, I keep my eyes open for these happy couples because I need to believe that that could be me again, one of these days; Happy and in love. As hard as I try, and I have tried, Lord knows, I have yet to give up on love completely even though it seems to have given upon me.

Yummy Love – Food as Aphrodisiac

Yummy Love – Food as Aphrodisiac

Wouldn’t it be fun to combine two of the things you love most, good food and sex? Food has been used for thousands of years to enhance our love lives and spice up our erotic play. What you eat (and of course, where and how you eat it) can have a direct impact on your sex life, affecting your hormones, brain chemistry and energy and stress levels. Some foods affect our moods, others arouse us because they are psychologically suggestive, and some can actually increase blood flow to the genitals. 

3 Top Relationship Red Flags

3 Top Relationship Red Flags

Red flags: those signs you can spot so easily in your best girlfriend’s relationship are often difficult to recognize in your own. It’s those subtle, yet you-know-something’s-not-right feelings that are rationalized away which creates obstacles to lasting love. As a relationship coach, I hear stories from women who want to believe they are somehow overreacting to uneasy vibes in a relationship. Most of the time, they describe cautionary cues pointing to what they are trying to hide from themselves: the end of the dream of lasting love with that person.

How To Think Like A Man

How To Think Like A Man

While I have been coaching both men and women for over a decade, what I really enjoy about coaching each gender is very different.  What I love most about coaching women is feeling like I am getting to share with them all of the secrets about men that men never tell them.  I have always loved being able to give women a tour inside the mind of a man, so that they truly understand men and how they're wired.  

What Happens On The Other Side Of The Closet

What Happens On The Other Side Of The Closet

In my last article I shared how staying in the closet saved my children’s lives, and helped them grow up to be open-minded, strong young ladies. However, there’s a third person in this equation that I want to now address – my ex-wife. The person who also lost life as she knew it, began second guessing herself, and ironically ended up finding out who she really was from this experience.