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How Do Sexual Patterns Reveal Themselves?

How Do Sexual Patterns Reveal Themselves?

People often go into marriage thinking that their past sexual pattern or way of having sex somehow vanishes. That is because the sex is new and fun in the relationship and that the past sexual pattern will not matter, but it does. As we get older and have more sexual partners, ways of masturbating, we get into a sexual pattern that we may not even realize and this pattern will eventually come out in the marriage. The best case scenario is that the sexual pattern can be shared with your spouse working it into the love making.

What Relationship Chemistry Means For Your Love Life

What Relationship Chemistry Means For Your Love Life

Are you dateable or mateable? You'll love dating when you identify your dating goals and honor them as you choose the best people to date.  Let's walk you through the process. What are your dating goals? How do they help you choose your best dates? If you seek instant intimacy in a casual fling, then your best date will share these goals and will not expect a serious relationship to develop. You are dateable, not mateable, unless your dating goals change. If you seek a healthy, happy relationship with lasting love, you are mateable.

4 Do's and Don't Of A Friends With Benefits Relationship

4 Do's and Don't Of A Friends With Benefits Relationship

Friends with benefits (FWB) have gotten a lot of media coverage and attention over the past few years and with that have definitely being an ever growing type of relationship. This type of extended friendship can be risky, but if you follow these DOs and DONTs, I promise that your friendship will be as solid as ever and the sex with be great.    

Why Dating Websites Are Better Than Single Meetup Events

Why Dating Websites Are Better Than Single Meetup Events

My best friend who lives in Southern Florida is in her early 50’s and is ready to start dating again after losing a partner to a brain tumor. She mentioned to me that she is frustrated with the singles scene since she says the singles events and Meetups she attends are almost 70% women. She feels it’s very competitive and if there is a decent guy, all the women are vying for his attention.

How Reframing Your Life Can Bring You Closer To Love

How Reframing Your Life Can Bring You Closer To Love

I recently talked to a client of mine who has been online dating. She had been connecting with several very interesting men who she thought were very promising and was excited to learn more about them and to start the “Relationship Exploration” process (aka dating). The emails were going back and forth wonderfully, excitement was building… and then suddenly, they disappeared on her. All three of them. Just stopped emailing. MIA.

Can A Man And Woman Be Friends Without Being Romantic?

Can A Man And Woman Be Friends Without Being Romantic?

There's an old question that asks if it is really possible for a man and a woman to be friends and remain friendly without becoming romantically involved. In modern times this question was the basis for a classic romantic comedy film released in 1989 - When Harry Met Sally - but it didn't start there, of course.

What To Do When You Wake Up Full Of Doubt

What To Do When You Wake Up Full Of Doubt

Do you ever wake up in the middle of the night full of doubt and fear? Doubts can be insidious, especially in the early morning hours. During the day you may be feeling really positive about your future and having the marriage of your dreams, but then you find yourself awake at 3:00 AM and your thoughts about the future suddenly seem scary and overwhelming.

Dear. Dr. Romance: Every Time We Talk, I'm in Tears and He's Mad

Dear. Dr. Romance: Every Time We Talk, I'm in Tears and He's Mad

Dear Dr. Romance: I have been married for 17 years and thought we had a great marriage. 10 years ago I got hurt and have had 6 back surgeries. At one point I would double up on meds and drink to ignore life. During this time my husband was an angel; until he discovered I was taking more meds and drinking. He was so repulsed that i was doing this to our family. He would talk to his friend (a girl) and began to have some feelings.

Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death

Give Me Liberty or Give Me Death

In the same drunken, crazed and brazen spirit with which our nation's forefathers declared our independence from the monarchy so many hundred years ago I propose that the following holiday be added to your calendar immediately. July 5th is Sexual Independence Day!