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Finding Love: 12 Tips for Men

Finding Love: 12 Tips for Men

I recently wrote a column for women about tips for finding love—you wouldn’t believe the amount of men who wrote in asking What about us?  We want to find love too!  Here you go Gentlemen—this is for YOU! Finding Love: 12 Tips for MEN…  

A New Twist On The 80/20 Rule For Relationships

A New Twist On The 80/20 Rule For Relationships

For anyone new to the "80/20 rule for relationships," it's the theory that says, in a fairly healthy relationship, you only get 80 percent of what you want. Maybe your partner isn't a triathlete or great at sharing his feelings, but it's OK, because the 80 percent you do get is really good. The other part of the equation says that it’s the endless search for that missing 20 percent you'd hoped for in your mate that leads people to cheat.

7 Steps To Financial Health In Your Marriage

7 Steps To Financial Health In Your Marriage

Balancing the family budget requires teamwork. It requires common goals. People in love support each other through thick and thin – through good and bad financial times. People in love don’t blame, castigate, or chastise each other when making financial decisions. They work together to make ends meet and to prepare for tomorrow.

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Why I Love My 50-Year-Old Body

Since turning 50 last year, I've felt surprisingly peaceful about myself and my appearance. I hear women my age complain that they miss being 25. They miss their pre-pregnancy figures, but not me. Here are some reasons why I love my body more today than ever before.

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Bid adieu.

3 Reasons Not To Remain Friends With Your Ex

Many women tell me they have become good friends with the guys they had intimate relationships with in the past. They see it as a sign of emotional maturity. Meanwhile, frequently, both parties are emotionally stuck.

He Asked You To Text Him First?

He Asked You To Text Him First?

You went out, met a guy, but instead of getting your number, he threw you a curve ball and got yours. Now what? Whenever possible, you should avoid being the first one to make contact, whether by text or any other modern-day device. It is important to let the guy make the first move, just to make sure that he is genuinely interested in you.

Are You Waiting For Your Knight-In-Shining-Armor?

Are You Waiting For Your Knight-In-Shining-Armor?

Ask yourself the following questions, and be totally honest with yourself: Does your self-talk sound like "I'm such a mess", or "why am I so insecure?", or other similarly self-deprecating statements? Do you think that someday you will meet a guy who will pull you out of the funk that you're in and make you happy?

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Ooh La La! How To French Kiss

Learning how to French kiss your partner is one of those intimate things that you absolutely must learn if you want keep things hot and fun between you.