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Things That Go Bump In The Night: Beware of Booty Calls

Things That Go Bump In The Night: Beware of Booty Calls

Its 3am. You have just come back from a night on the town and are somewhat intoxicated. Your phone rings and it’s him - the guy from the bar the other night or one of your ‘special’ friends. He invites you over to his apartment. Now the question is, to go or not to go? Bigger dilemma, he offers to pay for your cab. You don’t need to walk in the cold, figure out how to take public transportation at this hour, or make the dumb mistake of driving a car. You don’t want him to think you are easy, but you would like to go over because you would like to see him.

How To Benefit From Celebrity Rehab

How To Benefit From Celebrity Rehab

Many people who enter rehab for various mental health issues sometimes do not know how to take advantage of the advice given to them.  Many of these people go to rehab multiple times and still are not sure how to handle their mental health issues. Here are some tips on what a person can do when they go to rehab. 1.  Accept That You Have A Problem The first step a person needs to do when they go to rehab is to admit they have a problem.  Once a person admits they have a problem then he or she can then take the necessary steps in getting better.

How Active Listening & Understanding Leads to Connection

How Active Listening & Understanding Leads to Connection

The best relationship advice I can give is about making the effort to truly understanding each other. Most of us want to be listened to and understood but do we really listen to ourselves and to others? This is a real skill that can be learned and developed over time. It occurs most frequently and most effectively when we set time aside to really tune in to each other. Or in meditation, to ourselves.

The Key To Improving Your Relationships

The Key To Improving Your Relationships

The best relationship advice I can give is about making the effort to truly understanding each other. Most of us want to be listened to and understood, but do we really listen to ourselves and to others? This is a real skill that can be learned and developed over time. It occurs most frequently and most effectively when we set time aside to really tune in to each other or, in meditation, to ourselves.

5 WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP

5 WAYS TO PROTECT YOUR NEW RELATIONSHIP

Transformational Fiction is my new teaching genre. You can be entertained and informed as they fly on the wall in the bedrooms of couples struggling with sexual and other issues. Please come to my site for free stories and chapters.  When you find your mate, the world suddenly seems right. You are loved, your love is received. You believe that this is the absolutely best way to live.

What to Say and How to Say It: A Conflict Model That Works!

What to Say and How to Say It: A Conflict Model That Works!

As I have mentioned before in this series (The Eight Simple Rules to Managing Conflict), the biggest key to effectively resolving conflict is preparation. When we have time to prepare we do much better in resolving conflict than when it is thrust upon us and all we can do is react. When I mediate conflicts, I include a preparation and coaching phase with both parties individually before I ever bring them together. This added phase is critical to a successful mediation, resulting in both parties being prepared, goal-focused, and ready for resolution.