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How To Get Hit On

How To Get Hit On

Sadly, just being out and about is not enough to get hit on these days. You have to make a concerted effort. While it would be nice to just hit your local pub and watch the men fight to get to you, those chances are slim. At least if you’re me any way. If that happens to you, you should probably just stop reading now.  I NEVER Get Hit On

Who’s on YOUR side?

Who’s got your back? Who’s in your corner? Who’s on your side? Who’s seated at your table? Imagine you have invited five of your closest friends to your home for a holiday gathering. You’ve got your shiny bright holiday decorations up, the eggnog is ready, and the festive music is playing. Who’s showing up for this gathering?  

The #1 Best Gift For Your Career This Holiday Season!

The #1 Best Gift For Your Career This Holiday Season!

It's the holiday season (yay! This girl *me* loves some pink holiday corporate cocktails!), and you are probably thinking a few things: 1. I should be paid more - will I get a bonus? 2. I can just sort-of ... slide downhill.  Take some calls, avoid some clients, and focus on the holidays parties (and avoiding my family). Now is the time to online shoe shop! 3. I'm too busy to think about my next career move! (But reviews are kind of stressing me out - I need that bonus!)

Surviving The Holidays: Four Ways to Deal With Ex Wife Run-Ins

Surviving The Holidays: Four Ways to Deal With Ex Wife Run-Ins

It could happen anywhere: shopping at the mall, a quick visit to the bank, or even a holiday event at your child’s school. One minute, you’re having a great time. The next, your emotions range from shock to bewilderment and you begin to panic.   Yes, it’s one of the most frequently overlooked aspects of divorce – unexpectedly running into your ex-wife, especially during the holidays. No one tells you about these little nuances of divorce or how to deal with this situation – only the after math.

Is it Lack of Willpower or ADD?

Is it Lack of Willpower or ADD?

Very often I will hear a parent tell me that his child could not possibly have ADD because he is able to play video games for long hours without being distracted in the least.  Or that one’s spouse can watch a football game without ever being distracted. This can be very misleading and also accounts for a lot of arguments as people often interpret “ADDers” as being able to select what they can focus on depending on what they like.  Therefore, the conclusion is that they are either

The Makings of a Great First Date

The Makings of a Great First Date

I have been bordering on bitter lately so last night's reprieve from my lackluster love life was a welcome change. After all, a good first date is an instant mood lifter even if it doesn't lead to anything more than a happy memory. I finally went out with the Dreamy Stranger previously alluded to and I would deem the date a success even if a second round never happens. (But keeping full disclosure....I am eagerly hoping for that second date.) Here's Why:

How To Tell If It's Romance Or Friendship [EXPERT]
Are you just friends, or is there more?

How To Tell If It's Romance Or Friendship

If the spark does not develop within the first six months of the relationship, it is time to move on — unless a companionship relationship is acceptable to you. But if spark, flow and romance are important to you, then accept that you and your partner have a wonderful friendship but not a romance.

To Gift or Not to Gift?

To Gift or Not to Gift?

By Kimberly James, MatchMaster, FindYourPlusOne.com  With the holidays here, it is easy to get swept away in the spirit of gift giving. But when it comes to a new relationship or someone you are casually dating, it can be unclear to gift or not to gift. There are no real rules or guidelines to follow but there are ways to ease the confusion.