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Dating 101: What I Learned in High School

Dating 101: What I Learned in High School

High school was an absolute blast. I grew up in a 300-year-old community situated at the foothills of the Berkshire Mountains and an hour outside of Manhattan. Ridgefield, Conn., a town of roughly 25,000, was a fantastic place to grow up and an interesting place to learn about love. Since online dating wasn't as prevelant back then as it is today, there isn’t much to report on that front until my freshman year. Here's a year-by-year rundown of what high school taught me about dating.

3 Sexy Options For When You Are "Not In The Mood"

3 Sexy Options For When You Are "Not In The Mood"

Let’s face it: sometimes you are simply not in the mood for sex. More specifically, not in the mood for intercourse. Being penetrated is an intense physical and emotional experience, and there are times when it is simply out of the question. So when your lover initiates sex, nudging up to you as you go to bed or seducing you in broad daylight, what are your options?

The Secrets of Erotic Influence with Women

The Secrets of Erotic Influence with Women

At the risk of "tooting my own horn," I have had many women refer to me as "The Black Christian Grey" as well as "The King of Verbal Seduction" (a nickname frequently used on my adult-themed podcast program, The Erotic Conversationalist).  To this day, I have a number of e-mail messages and messages on the popular social networking site, Facebook, from women who refer to me as "Sir," "Daddy," or "Mr.

Sex And The Happiest Place On Earth

Sex And The Happiest Place On Earth

For those of you who were expecting a column on that Southern California tourist attraction known as Disneyland, I'm afraid I have bad news for you. This article will contain no mention of the Monorail, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, or Pirates of the Caribbean (other than the one immediately preceding, of course). No, this is a tribute to another attraction that is, in fact, every straight man's number one favorite destination … your own Magic Kingdom: your vagina.

Boost Your Student's Dreams...and Get Your Life Back

Boost Your Student's Dreams...and Get Your Life Back

We love our kids. Year after year, we do anything to give them every advantage in the world and nudge them toward the life of their dreams. This is often at the cost of our personal time and relationships. So many parents feel like they have put their life on hold to put all their available energy and resources into their kids. 

How To Manage The Fear Of Success

How To Manage The Fear Of Success

Some business people are afraid of success even though they do not admit it. Being successful can create its own problems and anxieties. Here are a few tips on how to manage the fear of success. Take things one step a time. Do not do everything all at once when dealing with the demands of your peers. Although you are in the spot light try to remain consistent in your business dealings before you became popular.

Our Fears And Worries Can Distort The Reality of The Situation

Our Fears And Worries Can Distort The Reality of The Situation

At times, our worries and anxieties can overwhelm us. In addition, our worries can distort our perception of what is reality and what is not. Here is a brief list of techniques that a person can use to help gain a better perspective on things during our anxious moments. When feeling anxious, stop what you are doing and try to do something that will relax you. A person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get their mind off of the problem.

How Celebrities Can Overcome Bad Publicity

How Celebrities Can Overcome Bad Publicity

Many celebrities and entertainers sometimes have to deal with bad publicity. Here are a few suggestions on how celebrities can deal with negative media attention.   1. Determine A Strategy Beforehand Chances are that if you’re a celebrity you will have to deal with some kind of media report in your career. Don’t wait until something happens. Plan ahead of time so that when something does happen you will know what to do to prevent negative consequences to your career.