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I Do Not Like My Boyfriend Traveling - What Do I Do?

I Do Not Like My Boyfriend Traveling - What Do I Do?

Question I have a great boyfriend, who is smart, funny, and cute. We get along really well, except for one problem - his job involves a lot of travel and there are times when he is on the road for months. I find his absences difficult to deal with (although when he returns, we seem to be fine again).

Are You Dating For Yourself or For Your Friends?

Are You Dating For Yourself or For Your Friends?

Opinions are like noses - everyone has one. And often, those noses are stuck smack dab in the middle of our personal lives that it makes it difficult to cipher through the good, the bad and the plain insane pieces of advice. When it comes to dating, those around us may think they know what's best for us because they either saw us come out of a bad relationship or think someone would be a good match. The good intenders weigh in on the type of profession he should work in or the number of  children he should/shouldn't have or even his former marital status.

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Gay Men: Top 10 Dating Tips

Unfortunately, the gay dating pool is viciously competitive. So, instead of fighting over the newest man meat on Grindr, I recommend these practical tips for gay men.

9 Tips For Dealing With Your Crazy, Narcissist Ex

9 Tips For Dealing With Your Crazy, Narcissist Ex

A narcissist may come across as arrogant and selfish. They undermine others to inflate their own sense of self. They truly believe that the world revolves around them. People and things are there for them to use when and if they please. They are unable to show true empathy for others, which make it difficult to maintain a loving, healthy relationship.

How ADHD Affects Your Long-Term Dating Life
ADHD can make good men seem boring.

How ADHD Affects Your Long-Term Dating Life

It seems the more I listen to people in and out of my therapy practice, the more I realize that for many of us, achieving a healthy love relationship is often fraught with much difficulty.

Great Date Night Idea

Great Date Night Idea

“My wife and I keep hearing about ‘date night’ and we do it, we go to the movies and have dinner, but we are looking for some ways to spice things up that won’t get us in any trouble.” Scott, Arizona Great question, Scott! Just after David and I were engaged we had started to settle into the relationship the way we can after some of the newness deepens into a different level of intimacy. A few of our natural tendencies or personality traits became more obvious to each other.

10 Ways Pleasure Can Save Your Life

10 Ways Pleasure Can Save Your Life

Pleasure is often thought about as being selfish, greedy, or hedonistic. We believe in making Pleasure a Priority. Pleasure does not just happen to us - we must actively choose to cultivate pleasure in our individual lives and in our relationships. Pleasure is healthy, makes us feel happier, more alive, and gives us energy to fuel our days. We believe that being fulfilled with pleasure makes us better partners, parents, friends and coworkers.

Women Should Always be Initiators, Reciprocators, or Rejecters

Women Should Always be Initiators, Reciprocators, or Rejecters

For the last ten years or more, I tend to put the interpersonal communication style of women into five general categories . . . Initiators:  Most people in society say that it is generally expected that a single man will be the first to approach a woman, initiate a conversation with her, and invite her to share his company at some point in the near future for a romantic date or a casual hook-up.