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Top Tips for Online Dating Success

Top Tips for Online Dating Success

These top tips for online daters by online daters came from focus groups conducted to find out about what works and what doesn't when online dating. #1 – The purpose and result of Online Dating is to get OFFline and meet face to face.  Don’t waste time sending emails back and forth for weeks or months.  After a few email exchanges, have a phone conversation with the purpose of setting up a time to meet.

What The Research Tells Us About The Swinging Lifestyle

What The Research Tells Us About The Swinging Lifestyle

  Just the title of this book  - Swinging in America by authors Bergstrand and Sinski will cause much discomfort for many who assume they know what swingers do. What struck me when I first started reading the book was who the authors were and who they were not. They claimed to be the first authors that were not in the ‘lifestyle’ and married, but not to each other and represented a totally different and unbiased perspective.

Why I Got Married in My 50s

Why I Got Married in My 50s

The truth is I was happy before I married. I’d been single for about 4 years and had used that time to really get to know myself. I had a successful career and good friends. I wasn’t the type to wait until I had a relationship to do things, so I went out with friends, traveled, and generally enjoyed my life. So why, you ask, did I get married? The answer to that is I met my perfect match. When you reach a “certain age,” you know what you want. There are no more games, no more pretenses; at least that is how I think it should be.

19 Bath & Body Essentials For His & Her Needs

19 Bath & Body Essentials For His & Her Needs

Those words have been uttered by married couples for a long time. You may have even said something similar to this to your spouse this morning. We get it, we’ve been there ourselves over the years. In marriage you need to have the bath and body essentials at your fingertips so you are ready for these situations. Having these essentials in your bathroom or bedroom can take care of morning breath, sweaty crotch, freshening up before and after sex, and much more.

How Do I Talk To My Child About Adoption?

How Do I Talk To My Child About Adoption?

From celebrities to non celebrities, people are adopting children everyday.When you adopt a child, you are giving him or her wonderful gift of a forever home! However with all of the love that you have to offer also comes the responsibility of being willing to discuss their birth parents at some point in their lives. For many parents, this can be a challenging task. It can be even harder for the child.   

Why Does Every Loser Want To Marry Me?

Why Does Every Loser Want To Marry Me?

A Fox 26 viewer sent me this question: Dear Mary Jo, I am in my late twenties and grew up with a dad I didn’t really respect. He didn’t treat my mother very good, and was not faithful to her. He wasn’t involved with me, and I don’t remember ever feeling special. He went to work, and that was the extent of his care. I now find myself dating men exactly like him. I don’t want to; they just seem to be the ones who come into my life. What’s going on?

The Perks Of Online Dating

The Perks Of Online Dating

  This March marks a year of online dating and my search continues. Am I frustrated that 12 months, 3 different sites and countless dates have yet to lead to a substantial relationship? Sure, but looking back, I now realize that I have learned more about myself this past year than I ever thought possible. And some of those countless dates made hilarious next day stories that still bring a smile to my face. So even though I haven’t found the one, I can still appreciate the following benefits of living in the world of online dating:

How To Keep Yourself Out Of A Violent Relationship

How To Keep Yourself Out Of A Violent Relationship

It’s not always easy to tell which strangers are dangerous, and which are not. Here are some guidelines for protecting yourself and telling the difference. 1. Don’t be alone with a new person too quickly, and don’t go to the other person’s home, or allow him or her in yours, especially if you have children. Get to know someone first away from your home. Rather, meet for coffee or lunch in a public place, or in a group.

6 Ways To Weed Out The Weirdos In Online Dating

6 Ways To Weed Out The Weirdos In Online Dating

  It's safe to say that, for the most part, everyone has the same general fear when it comes to online dating. The biggest concern is usually if the person on the other side of the Internet will match their profile. Thankfully in this day and age, technology has made it a little bit easier for you to help ensure you are meeting is actually the person in the picture.