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The Absolute Best Communication Advice

The Absolute Best Communication Advice

  Most discussions on communication center around speaking. We learn about what we want to say, who we want to say it to, how we want to say it, and if we are even more aware, we actually think about what our intention is in saying it. We often prepare for a speech, a conversation or a meeting where we need to present ideas and information. But how often do you “prepare” to listen? How often do you think about the quality of your listening, or even ask yourself the question, “How do I want to listen?”

How To Co-Parent Following A Separation Or Divorce?

How To Co-Parent Following A Separation Or Divorce?

"You don’t have to be in love with your spouse to co-parent. You have to be in love with your “children” to co-parent!"   I hate her for what she has done to us! I hate him for what he has done to us! STOP! WAIT! LISTEN! Can I interrupt you for a moment and remind the both of you that your DIVORCE is not only about you but also about your “children” and how they are going to survive it. It is perfectly normal to be angry, hurt and outraged at your spouse for the divorce or separation.

Abortion After-Care: Why Not?

Abortion After-Care: Why Not?

When the word “abortion” appears in news stories, whether it is from a position of advocating for or against, millions of women avoid that news story all together.  The most recent news story “Arkansas 12-Week Abortion Ban Becomes Law” is an example of how abortion in the news, while promoting the political information, causes women hiding in their secret shame and grief  to push down their emotions.  From the perspective of news agencies t

Couples Going Green Together

Couples Going Green Together

My husband Mike and I are on the same page when it comes to the green, natural, organic, sustainable movement — whatever you want to call it. Going green together can be a really fun project that strengthens your relationship, a lot like any other project you take on with a partner.

Self Confidence: 4 Steps To Feel Good About Yourself

Self Confidence: 4 Steps To Feel Good About Yourself

With spring just around the corner and the whole world blossoming in and creating new life, I figured there is no better time than the present to talk about renewing yourself with confidence. There are two basic types of confidence – internal and external – and while they both affect how you feel about yourself, internal confidence is far more important than external confidence.

When To Start Dating After A Break Up Or Divorce

When To Start Dating After A Break Up Or Divorce

After a particularly painful break up or divorce, it’s crucial that you take the time to grieve and heal from the hurt. You have to learn to accept the separation and work on yourself, so when you DO reenter the dating world, you do so in a positive and constructive way, unburdened by any past baggage and poised to build a relationship that will withstand the test of time.

5 Red Flags In Online Dating Profiles

5 Red Flags In Online Dating Profiles

By Kelly Rouba, for GalTime.com If you’re looking for love and feel like you just aren’t meeting the right type of people, online dating can be a great alternative to the typical dating scene.   “Dating sites do increase the number of people, at least in principle, (who are) interested in meeting you,” says Dan Sapen, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist who runs a private practice in Long Island, NY.