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Worst New Year’s Resolution EVER & 3 That Will Change Your Life

Worst New Year’s Resolution EVER & 3 That Will Change Your Life

Each year millions of women (and men) vow to lose weight.  Apparently, only about 5% of them succeed for any length of time.   From my observations, the ones that don’t succeed spend the rest of the year obsessing about their weight and their lack of weight loss success.   How many more years of your life do you want to spend thinking about your weight, clothes size, number on a scale, or your next diet?  What fabulous things are you missing out on because you’ve given so much of your energy to either dieting or cheating on your diet?

10 Ways to Create Parenting Miracles out of Molecules

10 Ways to Create Parenting Miracles out of Molecules

When I was a child, it seemed like every adult in my zip code had an uncanny skill for making a “mountain out of a molehill.” In other words, of taking the smallest shred of negativity and amplifying all the tyranny and rottenness that shred of negativity may have implied. Before I go any further, let me give credit where credit is due. Exaggeration—the ability to weave a grand story out of next to nothing—is a very creative endeavor. It takes a keen eye, creative determination, and a lofty ability to wax poetic on all that is wrong.

Stressed out by being with family?

Stressed out by being with family?

Happy Holidays! I can’t believe another year is drawing to a close. It is an interesting time of year for me in particular, because my birthday and the holiday season hit all at once, and I find myself spending a lot of time in introspection during the month of December. So, in today’s post I wanted to share a realization that I had and a method to help you feel the love from your family during the holidays, especially when so many of us are dreading being around our family for more than several hours.  

Start Your New Years Resolutions Early

Start Your New Years Resolutions Early

For the New Year I decided I was going to give up drinking, smoking and carrying on, a term affectionately used by my bandmates.  And, I thought, why wait until New Years? Why not get a head start? I had hit my version of rock bottom recently, which I've been told is "lucky." That night, I got to having a few drinks with some girlfriends and the next thing I knew two of the girls I was with broke out into a fist fight. Yes, it was pretty violent and aggressive.

On the 12th Day of Loving

On the 12th Day of Loving

Are you in a relationship where you feel an accumulation of little hurts, not one big hurt but many little ones?  Notice how the little hurts build slowly.  Relationship intimacy builds with every caring, sensitive and open communication.  And it is quite fragile, requiring consistent nurturing.   On the 1st day of loving my true love hurt my feelings.  He arrived an hour late.

Are you Sad Around the Holidays?  You are not Alone.

Are you Sad Around the Holidays? You are not Alone.

For many people, the holidays are a time to expect much, and receive little.  Or the opposite; it is a time to receive a lot and get little of what they really want.  Many of us get fed up with the commercialization of Christmas, and get frustrated spending money trying to find the perfect gifts for those who already have too much.

How To Overcome The Nostalgia Of Lost Love [EXPERT]
Are you feeling nostalgic?

How To Overcome The Nostalgia Of Lost Love

Continuing to idealize and romanticize "the one" keeps you living in the past, making it extremely difficult to move forward. If you're asking, "Why didn't my relationship work out with him?" the simple yet hard-to-understand answer is that every person comes into your love life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

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Bad habits are made to be broken.

12 Ways To Break Bad Relationship Habits

Do you have bad relationship habits? Of course you do. Who doesn't? That's why we asked over 100 YourTango Experts the following question: "What are the most effective ways to overcome toxic relationship habits?"