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Oscar Pistorius Abusive & On Steroids?

Oscar Pistorius Abusive & On Steroids?

Yesterday, Oscar Leonard Carl Pistorius was a South African sprint runner. Today he is accused of murder on Valentine's Day. The 26-year old athlete was reputedly in fear for his life. He had an arsenal of weapons to protect himself from intruders. The early reports of Pistorius mistaking his girlfriend for an intruder and that he accidentally shot Reeva Steenkamp have been denied by police. A bloody cricket bat recovered from Pistorius' home is further evidence of premeditation and possible abuse by the Olympian.

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Are you suspicious of strangers?

5 Signs You're A Jealous Mess

An occasional, mildly jealous episode might actually heighten the interest in your relationship but chronic, pathological jealousy is like a cancer that will destroy any loving feelings that exist in your relationship. With that in mind, here are five signs you are a jealous mess.

3 Ways To Hit Your Valentines Bull's-Eye

3 Ways To Hit Your Valentines Bull's-Eye

Valentine’s day can be a lot like target practice. There’s bows, some arrows, a big target looming in the distance, and often a lot of near misses leaving ugly holes around the elusive solid center. Olympians aim for a 10-ring target face 229 feet away where the center is less than 5 inches in diameter. That’s like standing on the 25-yard line of a football field, aiming, shooting, and piercing an orange under the opposite goalpost.

Lipstick on his collar?
Lipstick on his collar?

Think He's Cheating? Here's What To Do

If you are asking yourself, "Is he cheating?" you probably sense something is off in your relationship. Learning to trust yourself and instincts is the key to your self-esteem. Too often women doubt themselves in favor of accepting a cheater's lies. But "Is he cheating?" is a brave question to ask. It means you are trusting your own instincts instead of the lies he's offering.

14 Truths About True Love

14 Truths About True Love

This guest article from PsychCentral was written by Danielle B. Grossman, MFT We know you were just assaulted with all those Valentine’s Day articles. Sorry about that. But it’s important to consider that “true love” is not just a theory or a figment of a writer’s imagination. Nor is it just the fictionalized stuff of romantic comedies. It can occur in day-to-day reality, too.

How The Internet Has Changed Dating

How The Internet Has Changed Dating

In 1995, the government agency that placed restrictions on the Internet’s ability to carry commercial traffic was decommissioned. This meant if you could afford a computer and monthly service, you could have the Internet in your home. Since the mid-1990s, the Internet has had a tremendous impact on culture and commerce including email, instant messaging, video calls and online dating. Yes, since gaining popularity since the early 2000s, online dating has revolutionized the way many women look at dating.

Are You Attracted To Men With False Self-Esteem?

Are You Attracted To Men With False Self-Esteem?

You know those hot, attractive men. They act cool, try to impress you and often act distant like they aren’t looking for a relationship at the moment. They sometimes come on super strong and then back down when you start spending more time together. Often, they disappear when you least expect it. You wonder what you did wrong and why men are like that. Dating tips are not the answer.

The One Dependable Source Of Love

The One Dependable Source Of Love

Seth and Cindy consulted with me because they had been married only a year and were having problems. Seth was often angry at Cindy, and Cindy felt shut down to Seth. "Seth," I asked him, "What are you wanting from Cindy that you are not getting?"

3 Ways To Date Like A Man
Give him a taste of his own medicine.

3 Ways To Date Like A Man

Are you tired of men playing games in the dating world? Well I say, "If you can't beat them at their own game, join them." Sometimes the best way to land a man is by giving him a taste of his own medicine.