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How To Get Out Of A Rut [EXPERT]
Have you painted yourself into a corner?

How To Get Out Of A Rut

Do you ever feel boxed-in, stuck, anxious or agitated? Do you think, "What's going on is not okay. This isn't what I signed up for, not what I was expecting, not how I want to spend my time. Get me out of here!"

Which Holiday Film Reveals How Office Affairs Begin?

Which Holiday Film Reveals How Office Affairs Begin?

Love is everywhere if you look for it, and Christmas is the time to make a magical leap to love.  That's the premise of the delightful holiday film from 2003, Love Actually, brought to life by a stellar British cast who fall in or out of love at Christmas. There's a dark side to this premise, which illustrates how office affairs start and can be prevented.  Let's explore the affair start up phase and how to protect your marriage from the threat of an office romance. Office Affair Start Up:

5 dating strategies that DON'T (usually) work

5 dating strategies that DON'T (usually) work

As a thirtysomething gal-about-town, I’ve technically been dating for more than half of my life—to no avail. But don’t get me wrong, I’ve tried. You name it, I’ve given it a shot, which is why I recently took matters into my own hands—literally. My new approach? Hitting the town solo, and you can read about all of my adventures on my blog, Bartender… Man Straight Up.

Mixed Messages In Dating

Mixed Messages In Dating

The human mind (ego) can play some pretty nasty tricks on us at times. Very often I will give a gentleman info on a new match with her phone number and he will call her, excited to meet a new lady and hoping that she will finally be “the one.” A day or two or three will pass, and I get a phone call from him notifying me that his match has not returned his phone call.  He will go on and on with possible scenarios as to why she did not return his call.

A Divorced Dad's Guide To Holiday Happiness [EXPERT]
Don't let divorce ruin your holiday season.

A Divorced Dad's Guide To Holiday Happiness

When divorce occurs, traditions of visiting family leave an unfulfilled emptiness regardless of the busy-ness of your schedule. This time of year is hard on divorced dads, especially those recently divorced. The opportunity to see your kids smiling is at best half as much. Divorce can be like putting on a pair of glasses with dark grey lenses — life turns dull, grim and depressing.

From Lovers To Friends: Can It Be Done? [EXPERT]
Is platonic friendship possible for exes?

From Lovers To Friends: Can It Be Done?

Most of the time, it's a fairly empty statement, a way to mitigate the blow of the "it's over" for both parties. But once in a blue moon, you really do mean it: let's be friends.

Staying Healthy Is Like Buying Toilet Paper.

Staying healthy is like buying toilet paper. You have to think about it. When I was in my 20′s I was constantly running out of toilet paper in my apartment. It just wasn’t on my radar to think about. Someone else had always bought the toilet paper in my life – my mom, my college dorm – and so when it came time for me to assume my own toilet paper responsibilities, I had to go through a period of learning the hard way.

How do you know if you’re REALLY ready for love? Find out!

How do you know if you’re REALLY ready for love? Find out!

The truth is, love is all around you. It’s there for you at any moment you choose. But romantic love, somehow it doesn’t seem so easy or so simple, does it?   So, how do you NOT just rely on luck and KNOW that at any moment, the right man for you may show up? Here’s how in a checklist for you. (For those of you who like checklists: you’re welcome) ;-) Here are my TOP 8 Signs that you are in fact, REALLY READY for love:

What IS Love?

What IS Love?

I have been through quite an ordeal this week and the last think I wanted to do was to write my weekly post. Some of you know what was happening and I will not bore you with any details, as exciting as they may be. But my ordeal got me thinking, something I do not like to do when I am at work or before coffee. What Is Love?

Top 10 Reasons To Date a Geek

Top 10 Reasons To Date a Geek

We all have different types of guys who make us go weak in the knees. Many of my friends like to date the “bad guy” who is very sexy and mysterious and will keep them guessing. I go for the nice, cute All American guy next door who will bring flowers, call when he says he will and holds the door for you. I notice a trend among my younger cousins … they love to date the nerdy geek. I actually have a cousin who is one. At 17 he loves opera, architecture, Kafka, politics and knows his way around technology.