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Should You Start With The Ending?

Should You Start With The Ending?

About a month ago I saw a quote that really impacted me, which doesn't happen very often.  It was so simple, yet instantly started my mind-a-reeling and I knew that at some point I would want to share it.  It goes something like this.   "Start things the way you want them to end." Ok.....Mind.  Blown.

She's Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

We all know someone who chooses the wrong partner over and over again. From a distance we can see it unfold, but they seem to have a blind spot in their own patterns. We also know people who have relationships and can’t understand why they would choose that person. Some have relationship after relationship in which they choose the same partner with a different name and some choose someone who is a direct contradiction to their values. Why so many people settle for a partner who does not meet their needs? Why do women tend to sacrifice what they want and need in relationships?

Blerg! 4 Valentine’s Day Love Lessons from Liz Lemon!

Blerg! 4 Valentine’s Day Love Lessons from Liz Lemon!

Our favorite glasses wearing, junk food loving, nerd-chic heroine has officially taken her bow.  And after seven years of laughs, what better way to pay tribute to the comic 30 Rock series than to take a trip down Liz Lemon’s romantic memory lane.  The show paved the way for some new funny girl’s like Zooey Dechanel’s quirky Jess and Mindy Kalling’s adorably disheveled Mindy.  So in Tina Fey’s immortal words, “Ain’t no party like a Liz Lemon party cause a Liz Lemon party is mandatory.”

Can Marriage Survive In Antarctica?

Can Marriage Survive In Antarctica?

We did it!! We did it!! When we planted our feet on the continent of Antarctica a few days ago, we became the first marriage researchers to interview successfully married couples on all seven continents of the world. And we want you to know that we are very proud of that accomplishment! As our loyal readers know, we have been engaged in our “labor of love” for over 30 years. We began our journey with this simple idea in mind – “Do great marriages around the world share common and pervasive characteristics.“

4 Tips For A Happy Valentine’s Day

4 Tips For A Happy Valentine’s Day

It is easy to lose focus of what’s important when the stores are filled with Valentine’s Day cards, gifts, and chocolates. We worry about being single, breaking up, and how to celebrate in a new relationship. Instead of focusing on your relationship status or the perfect Valentine’s date, remember the following tips. They’ll keep you focused on the important things in life, on Valentine’s Day and every day.

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

Have you ever heard the phrase “Keep doing what you’re doing, get more of what you got,” made popular by Werner Erhard? Either way, you will soon see why this truth begs an introduction to what I call your “tomorrow me.” That’s the YOU that’s here today representing the you of tomorrow (and the next day, and so on).

Ejaculatory Choice for Men

Ejaculatory Choice for Men

  For most men it is a stretch of the imagination when they first hear that a sexually active man would choose to forgo an ejaculatory release. Until we learn the benefits it sounds like an immense sacrifice. For the man willing to practice tantric sex the benefits are astounding.