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Key Things To Know If You Suffer From Delayed Ejaculation

Key Things To Know If You Suffer From Delayed Ejaculation

When it comes to sex and how we function sexually for some of us it is analogous to rocket science…bottom line – it’s complicated!  It is never easy to live up to society’s standards as to what normal, healthy male sexuality is supposed to look and feel like [whatever that is?] exasperated all the more when there is something not quite right with how we are functioning when we are with our partner.  As a sex therapist, I promote a sexuality based on pleasure, fun and intimacy and not performance.  However, the social pressures that continue to exer

5 Important Tips For Online Dating Success

5 Important Tips For Online Dating Success

1. Use good pictures. There are thousands of people on these sites, and there is going to be someone similar to you who has better pictures. And he is going to get the woman you want. If you want to meet good people, you need to have good pictures. It’s that simple.

What No One Tells You About How to Pick the Right Shrink For You

What No One Tells You About How to Pick the Right Shrink For You

You’ve worn out your friends, your parents just give you unwanted advice, and you’ve decided it’s finally time to see a therapist.  Good for you.  Therapy will most likely help you.  Significant research has been done that demonstrates that therapy helps most people[1]. But no one tells you how to pick a therapist.

Is Your Relationship Headed for Disaster?

Is Your Relationship Headed for Disaster?

Is your relationship headed for disaster?  In this article, we'll discuss 9 signs your relationship may be in trouble, and what to do about it.   John Gottman, PhD, is a leading psychologist in the area of marriage and relationships. Over the years, he has researched countless couples and has been able to predict with surprising accuracy which relationships survive and which fail.

Why Unplugging  Social Media Can Save Your Relationship

Why Unplugging Social Media Can Save Your Relationship

We live in an amazing age where there are so many methods of communication open to us, so many ways to stay in touch with the people who are important to us. However, in the case of our most intimate relationships, sometimes the best communication methods are the old-fashioned ones. In fact a recent article in Australia’s News.com stated that Oxford University psychologists found husbands and wives who kept in touch using technology ha

The Magic of Reassurance

The Magic of Reassurance

There are a few simple communication techniques that work like magic in relationships, whether with committed partners, friends, co-workers or relatives. One of the most effective is reassurance, which is simple to do, and calms both of you down, which allows your discussion move on without struggles. When a discussion begins to get difficult, if you learn to stay calm and reassure the other person you’ll find it works very effectively.

3 ways to talk so he hears you

3 ways to talk so he hears you

                                      The underlying problem in most relationships is lack of communication. This usually involves couples feeling like their partners don’t listen to them. Women seem to complain about this more than men. Women usually talk louder or begin to constantly remind the guy what they wanted him to hear (nagging). Women say “he tunes me out” or “when I talk to him he brings up something completely off topic”.