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Can Marriage Survive In Antarctica?

Can Marriage Survive In Antarctica?

We did it!! We did it!! When we planted our feet on the continent of Antarctica a few days ago, we became the first marriage researchers to interview successfully married couples on all seven continents of the world. And we want you to know that we are very proud of that accomplishment! As our loyal readers know, we have been engaged in our “labor of love” for over 30 years. We began our journey with this simple idea in mind – “Do great marriages around the world share common and pervasive characteristics.“

4 Tips For A Happy Valentine’s Day

4 Tips For A Happy Valentine’s Day

It is easy to lose focus of what’s important when the stores are filled with Valentine’s Day cards, gifts, and chocolates. We worry about being single, breaking up, and how to celebrate in a new relationship. Instead of focusing on your relationship status or the perfect Valentine’s date, remember the following tips. They’ll keep you focused on the important things in life, on Valentine’s Day and every day.

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

How Your "Tomorrow Me" Can Help You Today!

Have you ever heard the phrase “Keep doing what you’re doing, get more of what you got,” made popular by Werner Erhard? Either way, you will soon see why this truth begs an introduction to what I call your “tomorrow me.” That’s the YOU that’s here today representing the you of tomorrow (and the next day, and so on).

Ejaculatory Choice for Men

Ejaculatory Choice for Men

  For most men it is a stretch of the imagination when they first hear that a sexually active man would choose to forgo an ejaculatory release. Until we learn the benefits it sounds like an immense sacrifice. For the man willing to practice tantric sex the benefits are astounding.

5 Steps to Finding Your Soulmate

5 Steps to Finding Your Soulmate

Many times I talk to people who ask the questions: "Why can’t I find a good man/woman?" " Why do I keep making the same mistakes in my relationships?" When you are in between relationships, there is much introspective work to do. Without taking the time time to look at yourself, you are often in the position of repeating the same patterns over and over again.

My Cats, My Supervisors

Yes, I'll admit it. My cats rule. Let's just talk about a typical day and you'll see just what I mean. I wake up in the morning, with one cat making a ton of noise and the other is just walking back and forth over me, or maybe he's nose to my nose. I cannot do anything else, until I feed them.

How To Have An Affair Without Getting Caught

An interesting thing happens when you speak to hundreds of people who have ended relationships because their partner cheated; you actually learn how to have an affair. I have actually been asked by those in relationships to share with them how to have an affair so they don’t get caught! For the record, I do not condone planning an affair or extra-marital relationships.

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Known abuser Chris Brown is making headlines again.

5 Warning Signs Of An Abusive Relationship

Did you know there are definite personality traits that are typical of a man who abuses? While not every abuser falls under this profile, here are five typical warning signs that the guy you're with doesn't have your best interests at heart.

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Lance Armstrong takes lying to a new level.

Are You Dating A Liar Like Lance Armstrong?

We may never know if Lance Armstrong's former girlfriends Kate Hudson and Sheryl Crow knew about his performance-enhancing drug use. But if he was able to successfully conceal it from various anti-doping agencies around the world for so many years, the women in his lives were likely duped as well ... begging the question: What chance would you have of knowing your date was a habitual liar?