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How to Score a Relationship Upgrade

How to Score a Relationship Upgrade

If you've had problems in your love life time and time again, ask yourself if you are better off alone than repeatedly attracting the same “types” of people and relationships. Being happy on your own is a beautiful thing! If you have a true inner glow, you are likely to catch the attention of other singles. Just make sure you attract the type of singles who are worthy of your time and affection. In other words, you are going to need a relationship upgrade.

The 5 Most Damaging Myths of Motherhood

The 5 Most Damaging Myths of Motherhood

It’s hard to believe that in 2011, new moms still buy into the fantasies of motherhood.  It’s not their fault.  Often it’s women passing these on to other women, which is even more perplexing, and this unfortunately keeps the cycle going (often labeled “the conspiracy” by my clients).   Here are the top five myths that we’d be much healthier shedding:  

How do I Get Him to Stop Texting and Call Me?

How do I Get Him to Stop Texting and Call Me?

Many woman are confused by texting. They ask for texting advice: What does he mean when he just checks in? If he doesn't ask me a question, do I answer him? How long do I wait before I respond? Texting is like emotional shorthand; you're choosing to convey your thoughts and feelings in as few words as possible. Texting's great if he's at the grocery store and wants to know what ice cream to buy. It's also helpful when he has a flat tire and needs to let you know that he's going to be late.

Feeling lonely at work? 5 Tips Beyond Social Media

Feeling lonely at work? 5 Tips Beyond Social Media

Whether you are a solopreneur or work in a large corporation and have a cubical or office, there are times when you feel lonely at work. We have all faced days that seem like everybody is busy with their work and own lives, and you're just not getting enough social interaction. Social media has opened up a new stream to stay connected but it can go only so far. It's still mostly written interaction and even watching a video is fun, but it's still just you alone doing the watching.

Am I in a Healthy Relationship?

Am I in a Healthy Relationship?

Frequently, my clients and members of our website ask me, "Is my relationship healthy? How do I know if it is healthy?" Just as physical health is on a continuum, emotional health and relationship health are also on a continuum. And, like physical health, each person may have different criteria regarding what constitutes health.

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Commitment
Does the thought of commitment make you feel like a rat in a cage?

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Commitment

Nothing bugs the students and clients I work with more than angst about commitment. I'm all for commitment ... for stepping up to the relationship plate, aligning actions and words. Sometimes, however, it takes an unusual perspective to get some unusual results.

guys playing video games
When he's playing video games is probably not the best time to ask for his attention.

Loud & Clear: 10 Tips To Make Him Hear You

As women, we all know hard it is to get our men to understand us. We talk to them and then we get the stare — you know, the one that looks like we just spoke a foreign language? Either he does that or he will respond with something completely off base or something that makes you really upset. This is when the argument begins and ruins the whole night or day. For the sake of improving your relationship and helping your man understand the women's language, check out these ways to get your man to understand.