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how to get the commitment you want
Who knows? It may be what he wants too!

3 Steps To Get The Commitment You Want

A new study says that people are happier in their relationships when their partners show them more commitment ... but how do you know what kind of commitment you want? This step-by-step guide is the way to find out!

Beware: An Internet Dating Horror Story

Beware: An Internet Dating Horror Story

I feel compelled to write this warning to all you wonderful women who have been putting time and energy into internet dating. I want to tell you about my newest client and give you a heads-up if you’re Internet dating. Marcie is 52 years old and a highly accomplished woman. She’s recently divorced from a long marriage and has a beautiful 24-year-old daughter. She’s a world traveler and has spent much of her life helping women to find their authentic voice and their true-life path.

Are You Like Kim Kardashian When it Comes to Love?

Are You Like Kim Kardashian When it Comes to Love?

Kim Kardashian’s in the spotlight again after her nightmare divorce from Kris Humphries was finally granted 536 days after the filing of the divorce, seven times longer than their marriage. Somehow this is front page news. People say the Kardashian’s are famous for being famous. True. Famous for being beautiful. True. And what people don’t articulate is that we are attracted to their child-like vulnerability in front of the entire world.

7 Secrets To Mastering Communication Secret #2 - Compassion

7 Secrets To Mastering Communication Secret #2 - Compassion

Welcome to my 7-Part Series, 7 Secrets To Mastering Communication SECRET #2 - Compassion “Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them, humanity cannot survive.” ~ Dalai Lama XIV Compassion means, “I understand and I get you.” It means I’m walking alongside you, not necessarily in your in your shoes because I cannot truly know what you are experiencing.

How To Kill Communication In A Marriage

How To Kill Communication In A Marriage

Negative and hurtful statements can have the power to cut through the very fabric of the bond between two people in love. Words can damage and potentially destroy the foundation of your relationship. Make no mistake about it, words matter. While we have learned many lessons over the past 30 years from the thousands of happily married couples we have interviewed, one of the most interesting is about the importance of the words to our relationships.

Ozzy and Sharon Osbourne relapse
It's official: Ozzy Osbourne has relapsed ... so now what?

Ozzy Osbourne's Relapse: Should Sharon Divorce Him?

After ten years of sobriety, Ozzy Osbourne has relapsed on a binge of booze and drugs. We imagine Sharon thinking, "How can he say he loves me and — in this one action — take away my trust?" Our experts explain how the Osbournes' situation offers insight for what to do when your addict spouse relapses.

Learn How To Gain Respect By Putting Yourself First
Do you always have to prove your love?

Learn How To Gain Respect By Putting Yourself First

Melanie grew up with a narcissistic mother who demanded that Melanie conform to her concept of how a child should behave. To protect herself from her mother's anger, blame and disapproval, Melanie tried to be the "perfect child."