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Love gives the sparkle to all things...

There are two main areas of energies in motion (emotions), and they are love and fear.  There are many terms that fall under each area: happiness, hope, sadness, and pain. Ultimately, these emotions are created from either love or fear.  Each human being on this planet is created by love and fear is an energy that is learned.  Ever wonder how babies respond joyfully to love even if it is literally right after they were crying?

Do You Love Me Enough To Wipe My Ass?

Do You Love Me Enough To Wipe My Ass?

I DARE YOU. Look at who you think loves you the deepest, hold their hands, look at them straight in the eye, and ask them, “Do you love me enough to wipe my ass?” I could guarantee you that this is one moment in your life you will never forget. First of all, it is a freaking mortifying, if not hilariously awkward question to ask someone special in your life. I bet most people, If not all, have not asked this question to anyone. You are chuckling right now as your mind races with thoughts on this, right? The very idea of it is gross, probably repulsive to some.

The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling.

The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling.

The Top 12 Reasons Why He Suddenly Quit Calling. I was shopping in one of my favorite consignment stores and found an awesome bikini for my trip to LA. yesterday. Shopping and talking about men with the girls is so good for a woman’s soul. It releases oxytocin and we feel so much better about ourselves when it floods our body.

Leave Your Partner When Your Bank Account is Empty

Leave Your Partner When Your Bank Account is Empty

No, this is not some article giving financially frivolous advice to anyone that puts money above love. The type of bank account I am referring to is your emotional bank account. Now before you close this article, I think you may find interesting what I have to say. When it comes to relationships, our mind is like a bank. Do a good deed, make a love coin deposit. A kiss - perhaps five love coins. A massage - 20 love coins. Making love - 100 love coins.

Setting Your Intention

Setting Your Intention

To understand intention, we must understand what matters most to us, for it is on our values that intention is based. When we set intention, we can become cognizant of aligning our values with our actions. Most of the time it happens subconsciously, but when we understand how intention is formed, we can consciously and purposefully align our actions with our values. Aligning our actions with our values creates a harmony in our lives that is invaluable...so how does one align the two?

Is a sex therapist right for you?

Is a sex therapist right for you?

A lot of people ask me, just what does a sex therapist do and how do I know if I need or could benefit from one?  The following represents a recent interview to help answer those questions. Interviewer [I]: Can you summarize in one sentence who typically seeks you out? Sex Therapist [ST]:  Couples and individuals who want to strengthen and improve their sexual relationship.

Healing From Heartbreak

Healing From Heartbreak

No one gets a free pass when it comes to heartbreak. I'm not just referring to the grown up kind when we breakup with a lover, I'm referring to the heartbreak we experience as the natural result of just being a human being. It begins in childhood; young people suffer a great deal of heartbreak. I remember when I was in 2nd grade and my best friend Mary chose to take another friend on her family vacation instead of me. I was devastated; how could she betray me after all the secrets we shared?

How To Reduce Conflict With Your Kids (EXPERT)

How To Reduce Conflict With Your Kids (EXPERT)

“You’ve got to accentuate the positive.”  (Song by Harold Arlen & Johnny Mercer, 1944)   A positive attitude (or even a less negative attitude) has the potential to change lives.  This old song lyric came to mind while reading The Roller-Coaster Years – Raising Your Child Through the Maddening Yet Magical Middle School Years (Gianetti & Sagarese).  This is a fascinating book for parents of 10-15-year-olds, and for parents who want a gl