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Give Me A Megaphone!

Give Me A Megaphone!

So, I might get on a soapbox here.   Since when is self-care selfish? Why is investing in yourself so that you are whole, happy, and in love with your life self-centered? The idea that it is both good and admirable to suffer so that you can give to others is martyrdom. And useless, in my opinion. We see it everywhere - in men and women - but women tend to do the heavy lifting of nurturing and giving to others, often to the exclusion of self.

Take Time For You During The Holidays!

Take Time For You During The Holidays!

During the holidays it's go-go-go! We easily become stressed, short-tempered and overwhelmed. I have a very simple suggestion for you that might seem obvious, but I don't see a lot of people (outside of my clients!) doing it! Take time for self-care! Seriously. I'm listing some ideas here to help you fill your oil lamp, put the oxygen mask on yourself first - however you want to see it. Taking care of you is vital to your, um, vitality! As well as your sanity.

Inspiration Is All Around You

Inspiration Is All Around You

Here's a challenge: Find inspiration in someone who bugs you. Yes, seriously. Find what it is this annoying person gives to the world. Look for why this person is special. You want to know why? Because when you do that, you realize that we are all beautiful, special individuals. We all come from the same creation. When you can see with new eyes that even those people in your life who annoy the heck out of you bring light to the world, you will begin to realize how special you are! And how much your light is needed.

First Steps To Conquering Fear & Moving Forward

Phase I: Facing Judgment and Creating Awareness You've heard the phrase, "be here now." While it has become quite over-used and sadly, cliche'd, it does have enormous value. Be here now is more than just being present - which I've talked about before. Being present in this moment creates the future you desire - as opposed to obsessing about the past or worrying about the future.

Transitions: Choice

Transitions: Choice

You are always at choice. Even in the way you feel. No matter what happens to you, you can adjust the way you feel about it. Even if it's something you wish did not happen, and "negatively" effects you, you always have the choice to look at the event in another light.  

Face Your Fears

Face Your Fears

I recently did an online survey to ask women what their biggest block to moving forward in their lives was. Almost overwhelmingly, the response was fear: fear of failure, fear of what others might think, fear of success, fear of being laughed at, fear of getting hurt. The list goes on. Since overcoming fear is pivotal to my programs, I want to talk about how to put a F.A.C.E to the name of fear.  

6 Tips On How To Deal With A Difficult Marriage

Some people get stressed out over their marriage. The key is to work with the other person so that both of you can have a successful marriage. Here are some suggestions a person can use to help reduce conflict in regards to their marriage. 1.Talk with your spouse on a regular basis. Communication with one another will prevent any misunderstandings on certain issues. When a problem does come up, discuss your feelings and your view points to the other person. Don’t assume that the other person knows how you feel.

Finding Opportunity Between Negative Thoughts

Finding Opportunity Between Negative Thoughts

There's a moment when negative thoughts arise in your head, unbidden. In that moment, you need to decide how you are going to think about a given situation or person. You know what I'm talking about. It's that moment where you feel the urge to indulge in a negative thought or say a negative comment, just as you would to scratch an itchy scab. You don't really want to go there, but it feels kind of good to indulge that kind of thinking.  

6 Tips On How To Overcome A Panic Attack

6 Tips On How To Overcome A Panic Attack

Some people have a difficult time in dealing with a panic attack. Here are some useful suggestions on how to manage a panic attack. 1.Distract Yourself.  When a panic attack comes, a person should take a deep breath and try to find something to do for a few minutes to get their mind off of the problem. A person could get some fresh air, listen to some music, or do an activity that will give them a fresh perspective on things.

5 Tips On How To Work With A Difficult Boss

5 Tips On How To Work With A Difficult Boss

You like your job, but your boss gives you a hard time. What can you do if your current boss stresses you out? There are many things an employee can do to solve this problem. 1. Do  more than what is expected from you at your current job. Try to get things done ahead of  time and help out your co-workers. Your boss and co-workers will notice and give you more respect.