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Spilling the Real Truth About Why He Didn't Call You

Spilling the Real Truth About Why He Didn't Call You

One of the top Google search terms in the love category is about why the man didn’t call. I disagree with what most dating experts say about what men want and the do's and don'ts because I believe you did nothing wrong on the date. You didn’t say too much, act inappropriately or look too fat or too old. The reason he didn’t call is because you are attracted to men who would not call you no matter how fabulous you are that evening.

How to gain control over your erectile dysfunction

How to gain control over your erectile dysfunction

For some men erectile dysfunction can be so embarrassing that they have given up hope of ever meeting that special someone, and for others they have learned to live with it but it has destroyed their sex lives. Many men will go to the urologist to get help or see if it is a physical problem, but in most cases it is not.  Some medical doctors may prescribe anti-depressants to treat it, but it does not treat the real issue and there are side effects to the anti-depressants.

Best Places To Meet Singles

Best Places To Meet Singles

"Where can I meet singles?" This is the number one question I'm asked! Since I'm a matchmaker, it's my job to locate matches for my clients. Through the years, I've found some of the best places for singels to meet. You can pretty much meet your anywhere if you look hard enough, but I will narrow down the search for you. I know your busy and so lets get down to the nitty gritty.  

The Plus Side To Being Cheated On?

The Plus Side To Being Cheated On?

I know! I know! It’s pretty hard to see the bright side in being cheated on. In fact, if you have ever been on the receiving end of infidelity, you probably read the title of this blog and had the completely acceptable reaction of throwing your shoe at your computer screen while screaming ‘LIAR!’ If this is the case, then I’m sorry for the loss of your laptop screen and to a lesser extent the loss of your relationship.

She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

She Wants To Be More Than ‘Friends With Benefits’

Question: I am fairly young, 23, and I've been hooking up with this guy for 7 months now.  When we started hooking up he stated that he didn’t want a girlfriend, and he still feels the same way. Recently I told him that I was developing feelings for him. To protect me from getting hurt he decided that we should end things, saying that he didn’t want to hurt me in the long run (which he believed was inevitable).  Knowing that he said that and that he was capable of doing such a hurtful thing,

Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man

Dealing with Mixed Messages from a Man

Dating a guy who sends mixed messages is not only counter-productive, but it’s also frustrating, confusing and severely annoying. Unfortunately, it’s a part of the dating game and it’s something all of us have dealt with at one point or another. So when it happens, how do you deal with it? This week, one of our followers asks:   Dear @Instigaytor,

First Date Tips for Women

First Date Tips for Women

If the thought “find me a boyfriend” sends shivers down your spine, you probably just need a little courage and confidence to go out and get what you deserve out of life. If you’re constantly wondering, “when will I find love,” then what you need is a shot of self-esteem and a few tips and tricks to get the conversation going on a first date.

Dating After a Break Up Or Divorce

Dating After a Break Up Or Divorce

Okay, so you’ve read my article on when to start dating again after a break up or divorce and you’re confident that you’re 100% ready to get back out there. Congratulations! But wait – before you sign up for Match.com and start winking at people, let’s make sure you’re really prepared by going over the behaviors that can make or break a first date. If you haven’t dated in a while, reviewing this list will definitely help you get to the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and 5th date – and maybe even to “I do”.

5 Tips For Getting Back Into The Dating Scene

5 Tips For Getting Back Into The Dating Scene

No matter where you are in life the prospect of dating can be filled with anxiety. If you haven't dated for any length of time it can seem even scarier. After the end of a long-term relationship, sometimes there can be a lot of pressure to go out and date and find that new "plus one." Before you rush out the door, take a moment to read through these tips. They should help you turn a scary experience into one that you can enjoy.