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The Pros and Cons of Manipulation

The Pros and Cons of Manipulation

According to a new study, the use of manipulation is one way to test partner's love. Manipulation as a technique for getting what we want is something we all learn as babies.  Even before we have figured out that the Mommy is another person, we begin experimenting with how to get her to react to us in different ways.  Of course we know how to whine and cry from the very beginning, and this gets a useful response at first.  Soon we begin to try faking emotion in order to see how Mommy will react.  Usually, Mom can tell the difference.

What Should Parents Tell Their Children?

What Should Parents Tell Their Children?

It is so difficult to know the right thing to say. It depends on your child’s age, previous experiences, and temperament (some children are more sensitive than others), Even though many of our children live far away from Newtown, they may have feelings of fear, anxiety, and confusion. They may ask questions, such as, “Why were the children killed and will this happen in our school?”

How to Be Present for the Holidays

How to Be Present for the Holidays

How present are you during this time of year?  Are you so busy that you lose touch with the meaning of the season?  Are you too stressed out to really enjoy time with your family?  Do you struggle to remember what it’s all about?  Is it difficult to stay focused on the joy and hope of the season?  Would you like to enjoy yourself and your family more? Follow these six simple steps to relax, focus on the important things, and be fully present with yourself and your loved ones this season.

Why Do Men Run From The Altar?

Why Do Men Run From The Altar?

Let’s see if we can figure this out together. You have the altar, the man and you. What is the one variable you can change in this equation? For all those that say “the man,” please stop reading here. You have flunked this question. If your answer is “you,” please continue reading, because you are taking responsibility regardless of who is at fault. And when you take responsibility, you now have an opportunity to reach the outcome you desire.

New Year, New You, New Life, New Love (Part 1 of 3)

New Year, New You, New Life, New Love (Part 1 of 3)

Okay, you’ve broken up, you’re going through a divorce, and it’s been really hard.  Believe me, I know. After my final breakup (he left three times during the time we were together) with my fiancée, the “love of my life” I’ll tell you, the emptiness not just in me, but in our home, was creepy.

7 Give-Away Signs He Wants a Relationship

7 Give-Away Signs He Wants a Relationship

Sometimes it can be hard to tell just what your new man is looking for. If you’ve just started dating, and things are going great, you can begin to collect data to determine if he is Mr. Quality Casual, or is actually at a place in his life that he wants a relationship. Learn how to recognize the seven give-away signs he wants a relationship so you can find lasting love and partnership: