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5 Ways To Beat The Post-Divorce Holiday Blues This Fourth Of July
A little less emphasis on the blue in 'red, white, and blue' is definitely in order.

5 Ways To Beat The Post-Divorce Holiday Blues This Fourth Of July

Like any other holiday, the Fourth of July is rough for those of us who are recently divorced. This particular holiday may not even have been a big deal in your married days, but spending a "family" holiday without the family you've been accustomed to having can be a wakeup call. How do you cope? Our expert shares her advice.

Where Does Having True Grit Matter?

Where Does Having True Grit Matter?

Where are you most successful in your life? How did that success come about? Was it intelligence, education and talent or maybe just dumb luck? According to Angela Lee Duckworth, Ph.D, who studies achievement, true success takes more than intelligence and talent, which so many of us have. She also reminds us that attaining a level of expertise in any field takes 10 years of dedicated perseverance. In other words, the one thing that separates the world-renowned performers, artists, researchers, and high-achievers is GRIT.

It's All About Trust

It's All About Trust

I see many couples in my therapy practice and one of the major themes is trust.  Sometimes one partner has done something, which causes the other to lose trust.  But just as often insecurity or jealousy is the culprit.  We tend to view trust as an easy concept,  either I trust you or I don’t, right?  In reality though trust is like a complicated dance between two people.  For trust to be genuine and exist in relationships there must be a combination of two required elements: trustworthiness and trustfulness. 

Cleanse, Reset and Thrive!

Cleanse, Reset and Thrive!

As a matchmaker, my task is to facilitate singles to connect with their soul mates. In other words, just call me Cupid! In the dozen or so years that I have been matchmaking, I have had the pleasure of introducing many couples that have gone on to get married and ride off into the sunset living happily ever after. But there are also many singles that are still searching, and still struggling to find that perfect mate for them.

True Love: The Surprising Truth About Soulmates
So does true love really exist?

The Surprising Truth About Soulmates

We've been told to believe that a soulmate is someone who we will love forever. But the truth is, if you buy into this glossy, shiny definition, you'll miss out on experiencing the true meaning of being soulmates. Who is to say you don't have more than one soulmate? Or that you need one at all?

Single? How To Keep Friends From Pressuring You To Get Married
Remember, it's not a race to the end of the aisle.

Single? How To Resist The Pressure To Get Married

Are you starting to feel judged by friends and family about your single status? Is your mom prying into your love life? Are all of your girl friends tying to hook you up with single guys they know? Don't give into the pressure!

After the Divorce: Surviving Seeing Your Ex for the First Time

After the Divorce: Surviving Seeing Your Ex for the First Time

Your heart is pounding, it’s racing. Your mind is mush. It’s hard to think. Taking a deep breath, you try not to cry or show any emotion. There is a slight tremor in your hand. You feel like crap and are worried you look like crap. The internal dialogue goes: “Oh please dear God don’t let me cry in front of him! Breathe, just breathe. What if I start crying! I don’t want to cry! I hope he doesn’t look good. Maybe I’ll see him and feel nothing. OK, my coach said just look him in the eye and ask how his trip was. I just have to remember the words.

11 New Ways to Be a More Alluring & Magnetic Woman 24/7

11 New Ways to Be a More Alluring & Magnetic Woman 24/7

I love giving gifts that make successful women more powerful, alluring and magnetic to the best, highest quality men. You were probably expecting a nice article... Instead, I've decided to give you the list nicely "gift-wrapped" in a sassy PDF. Easy to download, print out and take with you.  Click on the following link below to get instant access to the list:

7 Shocking Must-Haves For Every Sexy Single Girl

7 Shocking Must-Haves For Every Sexy Single Girl

It’s summer – the days of making fireworks, one-night-stands, and dressing in less. Are you prepared for your summer of love? Most sexy single girls think that their beach bag is complete with bottle of sunscreen, a pair of flip flops, and a tube of lipstick but times have changed.  Here are 7 ways to be ready for whatever summer throws at you.