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38.8% of married men divorce between the ages of 20 and 24.

Are Divorced Men Capable Of Commitment?

Are you a woman who wants to be in a committed relationship or married? If so, and you're only considering men who have never been married, you may be limiting your options.

Fire It Up!

Fire It Up!

  Wishing for that perfect pill that will, without fail or side effects, increase your energy, focus, attention, and memory?  There are many marketed formulas from Rockstar and 5-hour energy drinks, to expensive prescriptions, over the counter medications and supplements.  Some have negative side effects from the high amounts of caffeine or sugar.  Others simply lead to a crash a few hours later.   Few have any research supporting their claims.

Warning Signs For Online Daters

Warning Signs For Online Daters

Here's a few tips to consider when dating online: •Avoid sharing your real name, email address, place of work, address, phone number or other identifying information while you are emailing or chatting until you are completely comfortable. •Trust your instincts and immediately stop communicating with anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable or apprehensive.

Blessings Come in Many Forms

Blessings Come in Many Forms

After attending an event in San Francisco on my birthday(February 23), I decided to take BART home. When I arrived on the train, I noticed there were no seats available. I found myself getting angry and complaining to myself about the situation. Moments later, I noticed a man with cerebral palsy enter the train. He was struggling with some packages in his hands and one of them tore, and fell on the floor.

How Can Conflict Increase Self-Esteem

How Can Conflict Increase Self-Esteem

How can conflict increase self-esteem? The very moment you are in contact with another person, there is the potential for conflict. However, it isn't conflict that causes stress; it's how conflict is handled. If you do not avoid conflict and instead deal with it, you will not only eliminate many of life's stresses, you will also feel more relaxed and confident.

The #1 Obstacle To Finding True Love [EXPERT]

The #1 Obstacle To Finding True Love [EXPERT]

One of the biggest obstacles I encountered in my search for love was of my own making. It was my unwillingness to change. The truth is, I desperately wanted my life to be different but I didn’t want to change myself to make that happen. I was kind of hoping it would change without me having to do anything.

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What you don't know might hurt you.

4 Well-Kept Secrets About Womanizers

Confession: I have been a womanizer for a long time, so I know something about womanizers in general. With that in mind, here are my best pieces of advice for single women about identifying and interacting with men like me.

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You don't have to travel far; you just have to travel together.

5 Vacation Ideas For Cash-Strapped Couples

A survey by the U.S. Travel Association found a weekend vacation is more likely to spark romance in a relationship than giving a material gift. Of the 1,100 American adults surveyed, 72 percent reported that traveling improves their sex life and strengthens their romantic relationship. Yet, the New York Times bestselling book The Normal Bar reports that 3/4 of all American couples have never taken a romantic vacation.

Should You be a Coach?

Should You be a Coach?

Many people find that they are coaching informally because others naturally gravitate to them for advice.  Do you enjoy motivating others and helping them to be their "best selves"?  Does working with others energize you?  Are you doing what you want to be doing in your career?  The answers to these and other questions will help to determine whether you should consider becoming a coach.

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

My intention here is to give you something that makes sense for you, that helps you understand some things you may not have understood before, and that as result, helps your relationship and love-making become more exciting, fun, and lasting. Men are driven visually more than women, not that women aren't driven my visual cues as well, but your drive has an emotional component to it that arrives later for men.  Men are also sexually aroused more quickly than women, and unless they are good at controlling their arousal, they can reach orgasm long before you, and some may even think that that is the end of the sex or love-making session.  If that is your experience, you have likely felt some degree of frustration if not anger, even resentment.  That is clearly a breakup waiting to happen.