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The Problem Of Painful Penetration No Matter Your Age

The Problem Of Painful Penetration No Matter Your Age

You don't have to be old for sex to be painful. There is a huge misunderstanding about who and why so many are experiencing the problem. When the topic arises, I constantly hear, "well I’m not that age so I don’t need to worry". Sexual pain affects 15-30 million women according to the Women’s Health Organization and up to 43% of women will be affected by sexual pain during their lifetime. That’s almost one in two women and it’s not necessarily because of hormonal imbalance associated with menopause.

Can Boo Break Your Bank? 5 Tips to Keep Your Cash after The Ring

Can Boo Break Your Bank? 5 Tips to Keep Your Cash after The Ring

If you haven't been through it yet consider yourself lucky!  After the initial elation of being engaged or married wears off, we find ourselves facing the reality that merging financially can be very one-sided.  In an ideal world both partners will come into the relationship with little to no debt, no history, ex's, child support, and both financially stable enough to succeed on their own on any given day.  However, life throws us curve balls!  So should we share everything?

5 Reasons Why Twilight Isn't Good For Your Love Life

5 Reasons Why Twilight Isn't Good For Your Love Life

There are millions of fans over the world of Twilight saga. You are addicted to this mystical love of Bella and Edward and you have read all books and seen all the movies about this unusual relationship. They look very romantic together but your addiction is definitely not good for your love life and your point of view on very important things in your life. 1. There's no such thing as vampire boyfriend

How To DATE Your Spouse!

How To DATE Your Spouse!

First off, are you dating? Dating your partner is a MUST! It’s not a “nice to have” like organizing your linen closet. We do a deep dive on this in Step Seven: S-Flirt, of our Eight Step Relationship Transformation System®. In my experience, people don’t take their FUN seriously enough!

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Step away from the phone and come back to real life.

Do THIS To Finally Choose Your Relationship Over Your iPhone

The overuse of social media in a relationship can negatively impact the bond between partners. Increasing communication and lessening phone usage can bring happiness back into the relationship that was lost to the Internet.

Teaching your kids - Patience is a Virtue!

Teaching your kids - Patience is a Virtue!

Ive been thinking about how to raise patient, disciplined kids and also that putting your kids in the center of your universe isn’t going to do them any favors. Giving in to every whim will just encourage impatience and entitlement. I’m far from a perfect parent, and being a widow - both Mom and Dad - certainly puts me at a disadvantage. Yet, I try to balance my intuition with what I think my kids really WANT in the moment, with my practical disciplinarian side of what they really NEED for future life's lessons.

When An Age Difference Begins To Matter In A Relationship

When An Age Difference Begins To Matter In A Relationship

Not everyone gets involved in a relationship, or marries someone that is close to their age or even in their same age group.  There have always been the jokes about older men in midlife crisis marrying younger women in order to feel youthful.  But there are now plenty of women who marry younger men.  There are situations where the mixing of different ages works quite well.

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Save yourself the pain and tears by asking about his past.

The 2 Reasons People Cheat (Over And Over Again)

Women sometimes enter into a relationship without asking their boyfriend about his past. Knowing who your man is or was will expose any infidelity and save you from hurt in the long run.