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La Materia Prima de los Sueños

La Materia Prima de los Sueños

Estaba yo sentado bajo un árbol un atardecer hace ya...muchas lunas. Una tarde de esas de verano en las que el sol se va apagando dulcemente en el horizonte cubierto bajo un manto de nubes como velos de colores, todos cálidos, anaranjados, rojos y amarillos tostados. Uno de esos momentos de inefable magia, que hechizan, que embrujan, que enamoran y que provocan a los duendes perseguir hadas en el bosque y a las musas seducir poetas…

El Arte de ser Río

El Arte de ser Río

Seamos río! Si eres cauce y yo soy agua,…somos río! Porque el agua sin un cauce se empantana… Y porque el cauce sin el agua está vacío… seamos río… La sabiduría no es más que la inteligencia perfumada de compasión. El ser humano, es el único ser viviente que está consciente de estar consciente. Estamos conscientes de nuestra propia existencia y somos el único ser viviente que ha sido dotado del poder de decisión.

What's Really Behind Your Kindness?

What's Really Behind Your Kindness?

Do you ever find yourself doing something nice for someone – a stranger or someone you know – only to not get any kind of acknowledgement back in return? I know I have and I’m gonna take a chance of epic proportions you have, too. Feel free to email me if this has never happened to you. Either way, I’m still going to share a recent experience a client had that made her quite angry.

The "Ethical Slut"

The "Ethical Slut"

 Hi everyone, I am currently reading The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy. I have found this book to be inspiring and education. This book is not just about learning how to navigate multiple relationships, it is about learning about your-self. Learning to ask your-self “Who am I”? “What do I need, desire from others”? “What can I do for others”? “What can I do for myself”? 

5 Reasons Why You're The "Sucker" In Your Relationship

5 Reasons Why You're The "Sucker" In Your Relationship

Every couple has their own universal complaints about one another, but one of the most common complaints I hear from women is how their husband or boyfriend never does "this" or always does "that” and the woman becomes the tragic victim. A very popular example is (and yes, you can hear my own confession about my own foible in this video) "I took care of EVERYTHING" in a certain scenario, "while he just sat there and he didn't even ASK me if I needed help!"

8 Ways to Bring a Zombie Marriage Back to Life

8 Ways to Bring a Zombie Marriage Back to Life

I was chatting with a client the other day about creating couplehood rituals – like binge-watching The Walking Dead on lazy weekends – when she said, “I don’t need to watch zombies.  My husband and I live like zombies.  Our marriage is the walking dead.”  Sad laugh.