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Increase Your Self Esteem and Attract Your Dream Partner.

Increase Your Self Esteem and Attract Your Dream Partner.

People who suffer low self-esteem or even bouts of depression will know there is a pattern or sequence of events that occurs before they hit the depths of despair. If you are one of those people, my advice to you is to first make a note of all the events that precede an episode of low self-esteem. Notice what you say to yourself that confirms for you that you are doubting yourself and your value to the world.

Do Gifts Help Us Win Our Partners Love Back?

Do Gifts Help Us Win Our Partners Love Back?

Do Gifts Help Us Win Our Partners Love Back? The 5 most important things to show your partner love By Karen Phillip With Ellen DeGeneres spending 16mil on a luxurious apartment for Portia will this make her fall back in love with Ellen? When we try to buy back the love of our partner we are often throwing away our money. When the relationship reaches the stage where you believe that spending money win them over, the damage is likely done.

How to move from fear to Love

How to move from fear to Love

Most of us are told when we are going through a tough time on our lives, “Just be positive, everything happens for a reason, it will get better..”  the platitudes are many.  Don’t get me wrong I know these are meant well and come from those who love us.  But in the moment of whatever is causing you misery, it is not that easy to shift.  The important thing to know is that it is possible to shift and this is how I have found it works for me.

Staying Focused On My Priorities

Staying Focused On My Priorities

What do you do when you're not staying on track and you really want to?  What stops you from doing the most important things first? I wonder if you identify with my story.  A few years ago, I told good friends I wanted to write a book and that I'd do an essay every day. That shouldn't have taken more than an hour for 200+ words, based on the eight years of writing a monthly relationship column I'd done for Active Singles Life. (It closed in 2008.)  I certainly have enough ideas and opinions.

Seeing Is Believing

Seeing Is Believing

Protecting the rights of children is my life’s work- so I will not be holding back to express my outrage in allowing Adrian Peterson to practice and play this week.  As I was preparing my thoughts on this topic for this post and for an interview, I saw the latest report that he has another four year old son from another woman who he also provided “beatings” to who he left scars on after a reported incident in a car in which the child injured himself because he wouldn't “sit still” and just take the beating.  That mother, too, called Child Prote

Dr. Romance's Guidelines for Not Fighting

Dr. Romance's Guidelines for Not Fighting

Fighting a lot? Dr. Romance recommends: No matter what you’re fighting about: money, sex, kids or something else, the fighting is an indication that your communication isn’t working. If this happens only occasionally, such as when one or both of you are tired or stressed; it’s not too big a problem.

3 Secrets To Have Someone Sail Into The Night With You!

3 Secrets To Have Someone Sail Into The Night With You!

Although it may start with a date or dates, it’s not about dating at all. Dating is only a means to an end – a fun and fulfilling relationship. People are meant to be in relationship. Get my drift. Yes, dating IS a fundamental way to meet someone terrific, but most people jump off of the boat too early, try to sail against the current, or attempt to speed up with way too big a sail. As you are dating the following three perspectives can make your sailing trip a lot smoother:

You MUST Get Out Of The Toilet!

You MUST Get Out Of The Toilet!

Your ability to have Mastery of your state, regardless of your environment and surroundings is one of the greatest assets you can have in life. It’s what we all depend on from “emergency response” professionals. But in our own lives, WE are all the emergency response people! At our recent Relationship Breakthrough Retreat live event, I had the pleasure of teaching one of our favorite relationship tools for mastering your state! The State-O-Meter™!