It happens to everyone. You’re sailing along smoothly in a meaningful relationship and then next thing you know, you find yourself single. Sometimes it’s expected, sometimes it’s not. Sometimes it’s your choice. Sometimes it’s not. Whatever the reason, you’ve recently found yourself single. Now what?
We all have moments when we procrastinate at work. Mars Venus believes, we typically procrastinate when we are stressed out and need to re-energize; we’re a little anxious as we’re figuring out the day’s priorities; or we have a few minutes to kill say before a meeting, between a project and lunch, waiting to talk to a co-worker or it’s almost time to go home. Procrastination and complacency are two blocks any of us can fall prey.
There are literally hundreds, if not hundreds of thousands of ways we can behave that could be considered loving. Yet, it is from where the gesture comes from that distinguishes the loving act from the empty gesture. If your goal is to display your love or affection genuinely, here are my five suggestions.
Women really over estimate who we are. Let me explain. The other day I saw this woman. She grabbed her kid and she said, “God, I miss you so much and I love you!” and just kept kissing the kid. I noticed that she had no ring on her finger. So I started talking to her and I said, “You know, that is so beautiful the way you are with your kid.” “Thank you.” “Single mom?” “Yes.”
We live in a world where there is an overabundance of information about what constitutes good healthy habits and the benefits of healthy habits. We are also aware of habits that are harmful to our health. Most of us have heard that even a small change every day will yield great results over time. So why do we find ourselves in the predicament of inaction?
Here is something very important for us to remember, and especially important to teach the children. . . . Believe in beauty, for the Earth Mother is covered with beauty. Believe in love, for your Earth Mother and Sky Father love you. Believe in magic, and you release your soul from the prison your mind tries to build around it. Above all, don't be afraid, the Great Spirit provides all that is needed. Believe in your medicine.
Dear Dr. Romance: I have been dating this girl for 3 months now but we were talking and going on occasional dates for a good 5 months before we finally made it offical. Now that we are together things have changed. She ignores me when we are around friends and family. When I ask her if she wants to do something or just hang out she always finds an excuse and i end up finding out she went out with her friend at the last second.
It can be frustrating and infuriating! You are kind and generous, but it doesn't seem to get you anywhere. You are single and you'd really like to be in a fabulous love relationship or marriage, but it just isn't happening.
This left her with unanswered questions. Why was he still moving? Why wasn't he asking her to get back together, even if it was long distance? How could he love her and then leave her?