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Parenting in the Age of Technology

Parenting in the Age of Technology

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Should you allow use of today's technology as a means to entertain your child while in a restaurant?

I recently read an article by Nick Bilton in the New York Times http://nyti.ms/Y7Qk7R entitled “The Child, the Tablet and the Developing Mind.” He writes on technology and the “Bits” blog for the Times. I was particularly struck by his response to a question his sister asked. She was talking about how she lets her children use iPads at the dinner table when she doesn’t want to.

Are you about to marry a financial loser?
If he's asked to borrow money from you, that's a red flag.

12 Financial Signs You're Engaged To A Loser

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He doesn't have clear financial goals ... so should you really consider him as a lifelong partner?

Couples support each other through good and bad financial times. However, before you decide that he's the right guy to marry, you need to take a serious look at how he views finances.

The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

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Most people give up or leave angry and hurt when their desires aren't met. There's a better solution

The most destructive and most common challenge I hear from my clients is when their partner's don’t exhibit the same level of desire for each other. It’s always one of the following two conversations. She’s too needy. He wants to do everything with me and it’s suffocating.  I feel like I can never satisfy her. I love him but I also need my own life and I feel guilty because I’m never enough for him.

7 Ways to Fill Up With Sensuality ( EXPERT)

7 Ways to Fill Up With Sensuality ( EXPERT)

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Do you know how to fill yourself up with your most loving, sensual, playful self when life is coming at you like a tsunami? It’s ok, you can admit it, not many women do. Honestly most women aren’t schooled or mentored in how to do this – we are taught how to make other people happy, how to make money, how to sacrifice our needs and made to feel selfish if we want a more pleasurable life.

household chores: how to say 'I love you'
Who knew that washing the dishes could be so endearing?

Household Chores: The Best Way To Say 'I Love You'

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Learn how sharing the load at home can enhance your intimacy.

Over time, men have become accustomed to pitching in around the house. Whether it's folding laundry or washing dishes, when couples do chores together, they inevitably become closer.

4 Best Ways to Turn a Man On

4 Best Ways to Turn a Man On

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I’ve been flooded by emails from women congratulating me on teaching men how to turn women on sexually. They then ask me how they can become great lovers for men.   Men are all about the chase, so we love when we can sexually chase you. Show me a man who doesn’t love a woman who talks dirty, and I’ll show you a man who spends the entire night looking at Internet porn because he’s too afraid to tell his wife or girlfriend what he wants sexually.

Intimacy by the Numbers

Intimacy by the Numbers

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Couples come together out of an equal fear of intimacy.

Couples come together out of an equal fear of intimacy. This is the answer to many questions about how people end up with each other.    “I want to be in an intimate relationship, so why do I keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners?”    “Why do I keep finding great guys who live somewhere else?”    “Why do all the women I meet want me only for my money?”    “Why do all the partners I meet turn out to be addicts?”

John Mayer Has Finally Learned To Be A Gentleman

John Mayer Has Finally Learned To Be A Gentleman

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Has John finally become a genleman? Let's take a look shall we?

In the mood for something funny whilst you read this? Check out The Vibrator Song! Oh Ladies - you'll be laughing all day. Known as a loose-lipped lothario it seems that John Mayer has perhaps finally learned to be a gentleman as he remained respectful towards his latest ex-girlfriend Katy Perry when talking about the demise of their relationship on Ellen about

5 Things To Consider When Opening Up A Joint Account

5 Things To Consider When Opening Up A Joint Account

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The pros and cons of having a joint account.

A joint account can make or break marriage. Couples must be able to discuss some of the pitfalls associated with having a joint account.  Money matters are a delicate subject; they can turn a happy home into a nightmare. A joint account may also lead to openness in a relationship and can help spouses build trust.