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Speaking Tango: Understanding Without Words

Speaking Tango: Understanding Without Words

Whether strangers from different Americas, two genders from different planets, or family living in the same house, we have all experienced the difficulty of effective communication. Daily, we are prone to using too many words, or maybe not enough – speaking superficially, unconsciously, and when it comes to expressing our deepest thoughts, desires, feelings and beliefs, we stumble around . . . grasping for ways to be understood. We try to protect ourselves and the other, sometimes we, unfortunately, try to manipulate and hurt the other.

How to Learn Mindfulness From a Child

How to Learn Mindfulness From a Child

Mindfulness is trending. Google is blazing the corporate trail by offering “mindful lunches” and an in-house program called “Search Inside Yourself.” Celebrities and corporate leaders, including Oprah Winfrey and Arianna Huffington, regularly espouse the benefits of this discipline. Elementary schools are adopting mindfulness programs in droves. Even the NFL is getting their mindfulness on, with the Seattle Seahawks using a sports psychologist to guide regular meditation sessions for the team.

Porn Addiction Masquerading As A Game—Chatroulette

Porn Addiction Masquerading As A Game—Chatroulette

Type the address. Load web cam. Drop pants. And click go. That was the norm for me on a site known as chatroulette.   bigstock Conceptual photo of a young ma 14491154 150x150 Porn Addiction Masquerading As A Game—ChatrouletteI discovered the site in the most innocuous way. A few guys were on it at work. I went on it with them and we started joking, talking, socializing, and trolling with the random people on the net. It was quite simple really. We were randomly matched up, via web cam, with a stranger from anywhere in the world.

On Being Nice

On Being Nice

I often get amused when I’m working with couples at what they think is the root of their sex problem. It’s usually not the mechanics but something deeper in how they treat the other person. Although, of course, learning how to be a good lover is not exactly what we all learned in kindergarten or even high school. Then, again, maybe you got lucky and had one of my sexologist pals teach you about sex in college, but even then the good news about sex and how to be a good lover is not the standard fare of even the most advanced of classrooms.

What Does It Takes To Find Your Enchanted Self

What Does It Takes To Find Your Enchanted Self

It is mental and emotional perspiration that we need to go through as we struggle to live a life of meaning and joy. The inspiration is there but it’s the perspiration that most of us need to put into our daily lives to create for ourselves lives of enchantment. Because, enchantment for most of us, i.e., living a life of joy, a life that reflects many states of well being, again and again, is hard work.