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How To Be Sexy Every Day Of The Week

How To Be Sexy Every Day Of The Week

So you want the secrets to being sexy every day of the week?  When we talk about being sexy our minds start conjuring up everything the media has told us is sexy; the perfect beach body, the gorgeous red carpet dress, or the 6-pack abs.  No matter who or what comes to mind, we’ve created a seemingly elusive air-brushed idea of sexiness defined by our outward appearances.  But sexiness isn’t just about what’s on the outside.  What if you already have everything you need to be sexy every day of the wee

6 Ways to Help Kids Make the Best of a Road Trip Detour (EXPERT)

6 Ways to Help Kids Make the Best of a Road Trip Detour (EXPERT)

(Today's article is about a tiny travel detour we experienced. This could have turned  into a dissertation about the detour as a metaphor for life.  Lucky for you, it's a bit lighter than that!) We were on our way home from the Poconos yesterday.  This being the July 4th weekend, the traffic was worse than usual.  I, for one, would rather drive a few miles out of the way and keep moving than sit in bumper-to-bumper traffic.  So we took a left and found ourselves in beautiful rolling hills and farmland in northwestern New Jersey.  And

Finding the Man of your Dreams is an Inside Job

Finding the Man of your Dreams is an Inside Job

I have to admit, I didn’t actually believe the Man of My Dreams existed––that is, until I met him. I’d compiled an exhaustively long list of Man-criteria and couldn’t readily imagine a guy who “had it all.” But that’s the interesting thing about conscious MANifesting®: you don’t actually need to believe, as long as you stop actively disbelieving.

Living with your Love won't always be heavenly bliss

Living with your Love won't always be heavenly bliss

The Warrior Poet and I are slowly making the transition into living together.  There were a few things we agreed needed to happen before I could move in full time – I’ve gotten the medical restriction off my license, my car can now go through emissions (crossing my fingers), and I need to find a more lucrative, reliable source of income, preferably one that doesn’t completely suck out my soul.

Why Won't He Commit?

Why Won't He Commit?

It's very validating to me when women in my growing community report how more lively their dating lives nowadays are after practicing my tools of treating dating as a "training ground" instead of a "hunting ground." And of being more process-oriented (feminine energy) instead of goal-oriented (masculine energy).

Focusing on blocks to love can keep you single

Focusing on blocks to love can keep you single

When you are feeling lonely and want to find a partner, the tendency is to focus on what is wrong. You may have been told that you need to work on your “blocks” so you can find love, but this approach actually works against you. You will get caught up in a never-ending cycle of fixing and feeling as if you are never going to “get it.”

Understanding Anthony's Anxiety

Understanding Anthony's Anxiety

Anthony Weiner is back in the news, campaigning to become New York City's next Mayor.  Beginning with a fascinating confessional interview in New York Times Magazine and an aggressive campaign underway, New Yorkers can expect an interesting race.  In politics, coming back after a humiliating scandal is certainly possible and even commonplace.  True, Weiner's future may never look as bright as it did pre-Weinergate, but

Are You a Doo-Doo Magnet?

Are You a Doo-Doo Magnet?

I call it the Doo-Doo Magnet Syndrome and it's the best explanation I've come up with for 'having a bad day.' Here's my explanation of this phenomenon: What happens is maybe you didn't sleep well. You get up late, groggy, get yourself put together to go to work, and now you're running late. You're in a hurry and every time you hit a red light, you get a little more upset. Then, when you get to your work, you can't find a parking spot. You get a little bit more upset.