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Shame And The Modern Woman: How Slut-Shaming Hurts You!
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Shame And The Modern Woman: How Slut-Shaming Hurts You!

Women across nations are aware of "slut-shaming" in one way or another. Many have even taken their lives due to said abuse. This conflict-resolution specialist stands up for women everywhere by providing the down low on real sex facts.

Applying The Drake Equation to IDateSmarter Program Principals

Applying The Drake Equation to IDateSmarter Program Principals

It's so easy to believe we will never find anyone better than the person we are currently with.  My IDateSmarter Program and principles and use of the Drake Equation will quickly dispel this myth. People end up in pain in relationships and yet have such a hard time leaving them. What's up with that? We fall in love and so badly want this relationship to be The One, to make us feel safe and whole...to erase all the loss and pain of our lives.

Dr. Romance: Finding your Next Spouse

Dr. Romance: Finding your Next Spouse

You're divorced and ready to look for a new love. Here are three tips to help you as you search for a new partner in life. 1. Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship.  You can mess around with anyone (if you’re careful and have safe sex) but before you bring someone into your life, or share money or living space, remember they’re bringing baggage.  Know what’s hidden – what’s not said at the beginning. Their baggage becomes your problem.

Learning Early How To Overcome Failure.

Learning Early How To Overcome Failure.

Sara Blakely, the overnight billionaire creator of Spanx, learned at an early age how not to be intimidated by failure.  Her father was a natural mentor in one of the key emotional intelligence skills necessary for young entrepreneurs.  As she told the story to Fareed Zakaria, her father encouraged both her and her brother to report daily any failures they had experienced.  And he rewarded them with praise for being willing and able to recognize and talk about the problems they had faced. 

Is This My Soulmate?

Is This My Soulmate?

It’s a question I get asked often.  How do I know?  Is this is my soulmate?  There are probably as many answers to that question as there are askers.  However, for me, part of what helped me define loa relationship coachmy personal definition of a soulmate was the experience of the moment when I realized I was married to a man who wasn’t mine.

My Wife Is Not Interested In Having Sex With Me

My Wife Is Not Interested In Having Sex With Me

If you are one of them then you may want to pay close attention to what you are going to read in this article.  A women's sex drive and desire is different than a man's.....This does not mean that her's is more or less of a sex drive, but with women, they can get turned off from sex for many reasons.  A women's emotions, feeling of love and safety all play part in her level of desire.  Another factor is physical, and this can be her cycle throughout the month as well as her hormone levels.

What Do Men Want In A Girlfriend?

What Do Men Want In A Girlfriend?

Wouldn’t you love to be a fly on the wall in a room full of men having deep conversations? You might be thinking to yourself, “Men having deep conversations? What could they possibly be speaking about?” Let me tell you ladies something. Men do talk and think very deeply. Probably much more than you think. In 15 years of coaching Men’s Empowerment Weekends, I’ve discovered what men want in a girlfriend.