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The Secret To Stay-Put Eye Makeup

The Secret To Stay-Put Eye Makeup

By Sasha BeautyBlogger for GalTime.com Recently, I decided to go with a charcoal “smoky” eye makeup look, and by the end of the evening I looked more like a not-so-cute version of a raccoon. Instead of achieving “smoky” I succeeded in “smeared.” My grey eyeliner had migrated south and my eyeshadow was creased like my favorite linen pants.

Claiming Your Interdependent Day

Claiming Your Interdependent Day

It is interesting how one can use words but never realize their meaning. Having just celebrated our Independence Day, I wondered about the word independence. What does it really mean? I’ve been told all my life that I’m “independent.” It seemed like the context of it was helpful when I was a child because I wanted to be able to do things for myself. Our first experiences of our ability to master our environment, begins when we can say, “Mommy I do peeped all by myself,” then run to show what we did and where we did it.

Bullying, the Beginning of Violence – Part 2

Bullying, the Beginning of Violence – Part 2

This newsletter is a continuation of my last message in which I am attempting to “upgrade” your understanding of the issue of Bullying. To better understand bullying, let’s define it. How we define bullying has an enormous impact on whether we see it as “kids will be kids,” a “rite of passage,” or a reflection of a less humane and violent culture that we have created.

Bullying, the Beginning of Violence – Part 1

Bullying, the Beginning of Violence – Part 1

At the recent workshop on Parenting Skills “Upgrade” we discussed how life has changed and how things are more stressful for all of us including children. A common theme I’m beginning to see is the need for us to upgrade our understanding of how stress takes us out of relationship with ourselves and others. How the traumatizers not only traumatize others but themselves. We have gotten into negative neurophysiological feedback loops within ourselves and each other.