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5 Reason's Why You're Still Single

5 Reason's Why You're Still Single

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If you're sick and tired of wondering why you're still single. I have the real reasons right here!

You’ve read all the magazines and the top dating tips, but at the end of the day you haven’t found the answers to why you’re still single. After years of coaching clients and running a dating service, I’ve found 5 reasons why you’re stuck being single.   1. Your love life is not your top priority.

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Is Will Smith a lax father because his own parents were strict disciplinarians?

Will Smith: Why 'Inner Vows' About Parenting Can Be Dangerous

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The vows you make to yourself about raising your kids may have unintended consequences.

The danger with making inner vows about parenting is that they inhibit normal growth: They cause extremes. After living in a strict environment, Will Smith has shared that his parenting style is the opposite of his father's: He doesn't believe in discipline and punishment.

sex advice: ways to drive you to orgasm
Don't be a backseat driver in your sex life.

Sexy Rules Of The Road: 5 Ways To Help Him Drive You To Orgasm

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Whether or not he's a novice driver, these tips will guide you toward the climactic finish line.

Ladies, it's time to take charge of your orgasm! Stop blaming your partner for not making it happen for you during sex. Think of your body as a high-performance vehicle that you're placing in the hands of a novice driver—your lover—each time you have sex. He wants you to reach the big O, but he needs some help operating your vehicle.

How To Keep ADHD From Ruining Your Marital Sex Life
In a marriage, ADHD "distraction" sometimes equals porn addiction and cheating.

How To Keep ADHD From Ruining Your Marital Sex Life

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Many married couples struggling with ADHD find their sex lives disintegrating: How to prevent this.

The same ADHD (Attention Deficity Hyperactivity Disorder) behaviors, compulsions, and coping strategies that send a married couple's relationship into rocky terrain can also get their sex life off track.

"I'm Not Gay: I Just Like Having Sex With Men"
"I'm not gay; I'm married and straight. I just like having sex with men." B.S.!

Gay Perspective: Why I Would Never Date A Married Man

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"Straight" married man having sex with other "straight" married men? Do I have news for you!

Are you a married man fooling yourself into thinking you're not gay, you just like having sex with men? I used to be in your shoes. After coming out and joining the ranks of the "happily divorced," here's the advice I have to offer you.

parenting: ways to save money as a family with spring cleaning
What are you waiting for? That loose change is calling your name.

Spring Cleaning: 3 Ways To Teach Your Kids About Saving Money

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Time to freshen up your wallet, so why not use the opportunity to teach your kids to save money too?

Now that we've mostly come out of hibernation, it's time to air out and clean out. Here are some tips to save some pennies while you clean-sweep your closets, car and house from top to bottom.

How to Spice Up Your Relationship

How to Spice Up Your Relationship

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I get this e-mail from women all the time:   “How do I spice up my relationship?” Well, I say a little cayenne pepper, throw it all over his body, and lick it up. You’ll be spiced up the entire day.   Or if you have an aversion to licking his entire body full of cayenne pepper, here are some other ways to spice up a relationship. Ask yourself if this relationship really needs spicing up, or if you need another relationship?  

The One Thing He Can't Do For You

The One Thing He Can't Do For You

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By Marcus Osborne for GalTime.com If there’s one thing that I’m constantly reminding people of when they tap me on the shoulder seeking advice about their either their particular situation or some general question, it’s this: people asking for advice have usually already made up their minds about their issue.  

How to Get Financially Stable After Divorce

How to Get Financially Stable After Divorce

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By Jeff Landers for GalTime.com   As a divorcing woman, you are no doubt looking forward to having the whole divorce process over with, so you can move ahead to your new life. If you’re like most women, you probably think the past few months (or years!) have been filled with enough emotional upheaval, not to mention legal and financial hassle, for a lifetime, and you’ll be very glad to have it all behind you . . . at last.