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How Well Do You Argue?

How Well Do You Argue?

How well do you argue? I spent most of my life in the dark about how to stand up for my rights without alienating my partner. As a people pleaser, I’d let things slide for a while before addressing them – and then I’d be so upset, I’d implode. Or, I’d stand up for myself in a way that made my partner run for the hills. Sound familiar?

My 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Challenge

My 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Challenge

I like to share that I am into my second week of a 30-day Orgasmic Yoga journey - Day 12 as a matter of fact. I hesitated for a number of days before deciding to take the step of documenting it and sharing with you my experience. What is Orgasmic Yoga? Orgasmic Yoga involves pleasurable, intimate and transformative practices. When practiced regularly over time, Orgasmic Yoga can change your life. The practice sessions involve breathing, savoring, sound, movement, touch, placement of attention, and awareness of intention.  

Learning the two types of listening

Learning the two types of listening

There are two different ways to listen to our partner – problem-solving listening and empathic listening. Oftentimes we get into conflict because we are not using the type of listening that is needed or expected by our partner, which can result in hurt feelings on both sides. By learning how to utilize both types listening and when to use which type of listening and why, you and your partner will be better able to understand and support each other.

Are You A Nag?

Are You A Nag?

I have taught dating and relationship courses to 100’s of men and women and one of the main things the men I work with complain about is that their girlfriends and partners tend to “nag”. Not only do they complain about it but a lot of them have said that it was the reason why they left a relationship or cheated.

Heighten the Mood with this Essential Oil Blend!

Heighten the Mood with this Essential Oil Blend!

Essential oils and essential oil blends have long been used to enhance mood and libido. Using essential oils - oils that are therapeutic grade- is like going back to the basics and creating a love mood free of artificial scents and ingredients.  You may have heard that certain oils like chamomile can aid in relaxation while other essential oils such as pepperment can increase clarity and concentration. You bet there are essential oil blends created specifically for enhancing mood and sexual desire. 

Chemistry vs. Compatibility

Chemistry vs. Compatibility

A sweet face is always easy to look at, right? But what if that sweet face had the personality of a sack of flour? Before choosing your next Mr. or Mrs. Right, take time to get to know the person behind the profile picture; looks can be very deceiving!

How To Be Happy With Yourself: 4 Tips To Pacify The Perfectionist

How To Be Happy With Yourself: 4 Tips To Pacify The Perfectionist

Let’s talk about life nowadays. It’s crazy, isn’t it? We all have to-do lists a mile long and we are constantly being pulled in different directions by our careers, spouses, children, and other responsibilities. What’s the result? - a world full of tightly-wound, super-efficient, multitasking mamas. That’s fine for a while, but over time the stress builds on us. Our efficiency and heroics become less important as our health declines, our relationships suffer, and our mindset becomes downright depressing. We know we should slow down.

Be Attractive to Men When You're New In Town: 4 Ways To Start
Say yes to all invitations and you're sure to meet someone special!

Be Attractive to Men When You're New In Town: 4 Ways To Start

Are you new to town and eager to start dating? Dating coach Lorii Abela offers women four ways they can meet and attract men when they're new to the neighborhood. Read on for tips on where to meet the men and how to attract their attention.