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Drop the fear of never finding love and it will find you

Drop the fear of never finding love and it will find you

Do you feel that no matter what you do, nothing seems to work out for you in your love life? The years are passing and you fear that you will be spending the rest of your life alone. Sometimes the fear is so great that you break down and get triggered after a bad date or someone you liked fell away. Your fearful ego is driving your efforts and, instead of finding love, you are getting the opposite.

Dr. Romance on shared laughter

Dr. Romance on shared laughter

Dr. Romance writes: A lighthearted approach to serious matters often is the most productive one. Imagine what your days would be like if you focused on having fun and making yourself and your partner laugh. Fun is also good for your health: Telling your partner the cute thing your kid said (or your pet did) or talking about the funny scene in the latest hit movie will lower your blood pressure, calm your pulse and generally help you release a lot of stress.

Do Good Relationships Require More Work Than They're Worth?

Do Good Relationships Require More Work Than They're Worth?

When NASA launches a space vehicle, it uses about 90% of its fuel getting beyond the earth’s atmosphere. After it clears the pull of this gravitational force, considerably less fuel is required, allowing it to travel great distances expending much less energy. This principle also applies to relationships. The early stages (after you pass the delirium of infatuation) are where the real work begins.

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12 essential lessons for couples who want to spice things up again.

You're Never Too Old To Learn About Sex

12 essential lessons for couples who want to spice things up again. Expert Debra Smouse gives sex advice and sex tips for older couples.

Being Music

Being Music

Recently I was at an event in which we were invited to go on an inward journey with the assistance of a buffalo drum. As I listened to the drumming, I found myself becoming one with it- absorbed and enveloped in the sound waves in a way that I hadn't experienced before. This led to the realization that we ARE music. I've long found compelling the analogies and metaphors comparing music as life or as aspects of life, and intellectually it resonated with me.

Robin Williams Left Us An Unopened Gift When He Took His Life

Robin Williams Left Us An Unopened Gift When He Took His Life

Last week the world lost a great man. Robin Williams was truly unique….there was no one else on this planet like Robin. And even in his passing, he gave us a great gift, if we choose to open it, a deep life lesson. When I first saw the post that said Robin had killed himself I was stunned. All I could hear in my head was “No, No, No, No.” When I realized it was in fact true, and that he took his own life, I began to cry.

7 Steps to Fix Your Sexless Relationship

7 Steps to Fix Your Sexless Relationship

“Problems start in the bedroom and travel outward.” -My Mother Relationships go through ups and downs. Maybe you’ve had a few kids together, time is tight, work seems crazy. You and your partner are both exhausted. Responsibilities, life and problems seem to have gotten in the way.