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The Someday Isle of Women’s Health Care - Tips to Manage Stress

The Someday Isle of Women’s Health Care - Tips to Manage Stress

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May is Women's Health Care Month. Licensed Professional Counselor offers tips to lower stress

The Someday Isle of Women’s Health Care I thought that if I was: 1. Patient with others 2. Kind, understanding and compassionate 3. Sacrificed so my children can have a better life than I did 4. Put my husband’s needs ahead of my own; even have sex when I really need sleep 5. Make sure that I participate at church, school, social and community organizations 6. Volunteer for good causes 7. Made sure to be effective, efficient and productive at work 8. Stay organized at home and work

parenting advice: your kid and porn
Installing parental controls is just not effective enough to shield your kids from porn.

The Shocking Reality About Your Kid & Pornography

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Are you prepared to answer your son or daughter's questions about sex?

A new study claims that children as young as 6 years old are exposed to sexually explicit content online daily. So how does porn affect our kids now and how will it affect their expectations about relationships later in life? Our expert surveyed roughly 3,000 parents to answer your questions regarding teaching your kids about sex.

12 Foolproof Steps to Successfully Date after Divorce

12 Foolproof Steps to Successfully Date after Divorce

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Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy offers 12 easy secrets to finding love after divorce.

Every day, I get calls from divorced women and men from cities around the country.   “Do you think I can ever find love again?”  “Are there any good people left?”  “Dating has changed so much – how do I even begin?”    We help our clients build their confidence, and put a strategy in place for each one to hit a homerun with dating this time around.   Follow these twelve steps, and you too will be off to the races!

Parenting in the Age of Technology

Parenting in the Age of Technology

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Should you allow use of today's technology as a means to entertain your child while in a restaurant?

I recently read an article by Nick Bilton in the New York Times http://nyti.ms/Y7Qk7R entitled “The Child, the Tablet and the Developing Mind.” He writes on technology and the “Bits” blog for the Times. I was particularly struck by his response to a question his sister asked. She was talking about how she lets her children use iPads at the dinner table when she doesn’t want to.

Are you about to marry a financial loser?
If he's asked to borrow money from you, that's a red flag.

12 Financial Signs You're Engaged To A Loser

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He doesn't have clear financial goals ... so should you really consider him as a lifelong partner?

Couples support each other through good and bad financial times. However, before you decide that he's the right guy to marry, you need to take a serious look at how he views finances.

The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

The Number One Mistake that Leads to Breakup or Divorce

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Most people give up or leave angry and hurt when their desires aren't met. There's a better solution

The most destructive and most common challenge I hear from my clients is when their partner's don’t exhibit the same level of desire for each other. It’s always one of the following two conversations. She’s too needy. He wants to do everything with me and it’s suffocating.  I feel like I can never satisfy her. I love him but I also need my own life and I feel guilty because I’m never enough for him.

7 Ways to Fill Up With Sensuality ( EXPERT)

7 Ways to Fill Up With Sensuality ( EXPERT)

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Do you know how to fill yourself up with your most loving, sensual, playful self when life is coming at you like a tsunami? It’s ok, you can admit it, not many women do. Honestly most women aren’t schooled or mentored in how to do this – we are taught how to make other people happy, how to make money, how to sacrifice our needs and made to feel selfish if we want a more pleasurable life.

household chores: how to say 'I love you'
Who knew that washing the dishes could be so endearing?

Household Chores: The Best Way To Say 'I Love You'

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Learn how sharing the load at home can enhance your intimacy.

Over time, men have become accustomed to pitching in around the house. Whether it's folding laundry or washing dishes, when couples do chores together, they inevitably become closer.

4 Best Ways to Turn a Man On

4 Best Ways to Turn a Man On

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I’ve been flooded by emails from women congratulating me on teaching men how to turn women on sexually. They then ask me how they can become great lovers for men.   Men are all about the chase, so we love when we can sexually chase you. Show me a man who doesn’t love a woman who talks dirty, and I’ll show you a man who spends the entire night looking at Internet porn because he’s too afraid to tell his wife or girlfriend what he wants sexually.

Intimacy by the Numbers

Intimacy by the Numbers

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Couples come together out of an equal fear of intimacy.

Couples come together out of an equal fear of intimacy. This is the answer to many questions about how people end up with each other.    “I want to be in an intimate relationship, so why do I keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners?”    “Why do I keep finding great guys who live somewhere else?”    “Why do all the women I meet want me only for my money?”    “Why do all the partners I meet turn out to be addicts?”