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Are You A Highly Sensitive Person Or In A Relationship With One?

Are You A Highly Sensitive Person Or In A Relationship With One?

Do you like to be alone? Do you feel overwhelmed in large groups of people? Do you need downtime to recharge aafter being around other people including those you love? If you do you may be a highly sensitive person. Highly sensitive people (HSP) intuitively recognize at a young age that they are different. They don't fit in and are often made to feel that there is something wrong with them because they are different.

Happy Winter Solstice TOMORROW... Astrology Tip Of The Week

Happy Winter Solstice TOMORROW... Astrology Tip Of The Week

   I don't know about you, but I'm bundled up good.    Seriously, I look like a crazy bag lady or something. I'm wearing the works - hat, scarf, sweater, leggings, thick socks with long underwear - layers galore.    I've got the heater blasting, and all my pets (my dog and two cats) are lying on heating pads in their little pet beds.    (They LOVE these, by the way - just be sure to keep them set on "low" so you don't B.B.Q. Fluffy and Rover...)

Humility or Disguised Vanity?

Humility or Disguised Vanity?

“People have enormous fear to recognize their own quality. They are ashamed by the prospect of showing their skills, to assume their own talents. It is the confusion between humility and modesty. Some think that modesty is a virtue. Culturally they learn it is not noble to assume their own qualities. It is appropriate to be discreet, deny, not being involved with praise. If someone questions about the success of any enterprise, the ideal is to change the subject. After all, to be well accepted it is important not to draw attention.

When Should I Have Sex With Him?

When Should I Have Sex With Him?

There's no greater feeling than meeting a guy and feeling the kind of chemistry that tears your clothes off. The body wants what the body wants and who doesn't want to feel good, it's exciting to ride the feeling. The question is are you looking to build something with someone or are you hooking up? There's no right or wrong answer the difference is; for a man having intercourse with you right away will get in the way of him knowing you as a human being.

Pay Off Your Christmas Purchases By Spring!

Pay Off Your Christmas Purchases By Spring!

You spent far more on Christmas presents than you’d planned to. Boxing Day sales were irresistible. After the stress of all that excess spending and the deep freeze of an early winter you felt deserving. So, you took advantage of the seat sale to an all-inclusive destination in the sun. Now, how do you pay for all of that? It’s Tempting … Fate

CHASING THE BAD BOY

CHASING THE BAD BOY

We’ve all heard the reasons why you are chasing the bad boys, ”you want to save them,” or “you think you can fix them.” Your therapist tells you that you’re trying to resolve something from your childhood like an absent or negligent parent, which your friends translate to, “oh, you have daddy (or mommy) issues.” And you’ve chalked it all up to understanding these but it still continues to happen. 

Why I Stopped Having Sex - A Confession!

Why I Stopped Having Sex - A Confession!

Sex. I love sex, ever since I first learned about it as a teenager.  I remember growing up, I used to read all the books, “The Sensuous Man”, “The Sensuous Women”, “The Joy of Sex” Sex was always a quest for me.  I remember my mother told me growing up to respect women, and I always tried to remember that. I remember losing my virginity and how amazing sex felt. I remember in my 20's, using sex as an ego validation. 

Why Fewer Men Are Getting Married, And What You Can Do About It

Why Fewer Men Are Getting Married, And What You Can Do About It

Fewer men are getting married than ever before, and the number one reason why is because of their financial stability. When he says he’s not ready because his career is not where he wants it to be, he’s not the only one. “More than a quarter of those who say they want to marry someday say they haven’t yet because they are not financially prepared.” According to a Pew Research Report.

Transforming Your Relationship: Brick or Glass™?

Transforming Your Relationship: Brick or Glass™?

Creating a life you love is the foundation for everything!  I passionately believe that your entire life is of your creating. What you love about it and what you hate about it…you created it. I passionately believe that “Magnificent love affairs are created and not found”. In fact, it’s the foundation of our 8 step relationship transformation system and how we teach people all over the world to create their unshakable love and unleashed passion…because it is absolutely created!