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Satisfying Sex

Satisfying Sex

Sex is complex.  It's personal and it's powerful.   While there is a good deal of difference in how we each experience our sexuality, only some of us are satisfied with our sex lives.  And many are very dissatisfied.  Those who are most dissatisfied seem to enter my office with worries that they are not desirable, or not competent as lovers or somehow that their desires or sexual activities are not appropriate.  Many of them have not considered that there might be a physical issues underlying their experiences or more commonly, that the root of

Must Be Your Fault

Must Be Your Fault

Why do you think if something's going wrong, it must be your fault? Why are you so sure if your boss is upset, it's because you've done something to upset him? Your boss is in a bad mood, and the first thing that goes through your mind is "What did I do?" You're sure you've made some terrible mistake. You obsess until you can't stand it anymore and come right out with "Let me know what I've done. Whatever it is, I'll fix it." Your boss looks at you funny and says "What are you talking about?

Can't Take Another Heartbreak?

Can't Take Another Heartbreak?

If you've ever felt hesitant, uncertain, fearful, or insecure about dating or getting into another relationship with a man who could very likely hurt you like you've been hurt before (and that’s all of us!), then this one’s for you.

A Rant on Sex and Violence  

Can someone please tell me what the hell is wrong with our society?  We allow children to watch violent movies and play even more violent video games, but we don’t give them healthy role models for sexual activity. 

Five Ways to Have Fun After Forty

Five Ways to Have Fun After Forty

   I hear it all the time:  “I’m so bored!”  I expect to hear it from my teenager, but I’m talking about women—friends and clients—in their forties complaining about being bored with their relationships

What about the man's sexual needs?

What about the man's sexual needs?

Men think—from their porno-sex-ed and general socialization— pleasing a woman means: (1) a big penis; (2) lasting a long time during intercourse; (3) making her orgasm. These things are probably NOT what the average gal is looking for in the sexual experience. In fact, she’s probably craves something very different.

Halitosis is a Dealbreaker

Halitosis is a Dealbreaker

Halitosis (aka funky breath) is something millions of women put up with everyday. Now's the time to make a change and set the record straight...it's a deal breaker.