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What's a Guy Got to Do to Have Sex?

What's a Guy Got to Do to Have Sex?

The old saying, “Happy wife, happy life” started me thinking about men and their sexual plight. A married man who wants any shred of sanity must learn to say, “Yes dear” often, no matter the circumstance. And, after his teenage years where his guys-gone-wild antics are both expected and praised, the average guy in a long term relationship gets the crummy end of the sex stick.

10 Reasons To Date A Cougar

Confidence – She knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to let you know. She means what she says and says what she means. She won’t freak out if she doesn’t hear from you for a few days. Sex – She doesn’t get as emotionally attached as younger women do if she’s having sex with you. She has a high sex drive. She’s comfortable with her body. She knows what she’s doing. She will rock your world. Money – She doesn’t need yours! She doesn’t care how much you make. She doesn’t care what your earning potential is. She doesn’t expect you to pay for everything. No Drama - She won’t call/text you 20 times a day. She won’t have a temper tantrum or cry easily. She won’t ask: Why didn’t you call? Where were you? Where is this going? Life Experience – She’s been around (in a good way) and is socially and sexually savvy. You will become a man and a better lover as a result of being with her.

Top Ten Celebrity Cougars

1. Mrs. Robinson – The original Cougar. This was the first time a woman seduced a much younger man on screen. It was a glimpse of things to come. 2. Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher – 15 years Demi officially kicked off the “Cougar Revolution” by marrying one of the most eligible bachelors in Hollywood.

Week #15: New Mom = No Sex Drive

Week #15: New Mom = No Sex Drive

It makes sense then that many new moms feel they have a low libido and search for a ‘magic pill’ to help get them feeling sexual and sexy. In fact, every year millions of women spend billions of dollars on spurious libido enhancement pills, creams and other unproven treatments.

Healthy Mind Set For Higher Awareness

Developing a healthy mind set is crucial if you would like to have higher awareness in your life. This begins with looking holistically at an individual and all of the aspects that make up the Whole person they are: physical body, mind, emotions, soul/spirit. Choosing healthy lifestyle choices such as eating clean, organic diet of fish, lean meats, fresh vegetables and fruits, nuts and healthy fats. Choosing to exercise daily through walking, strength training or finding a creative movement that feels good to you. Choosing to think positive thoughts and keeping free of negative thoughts, letting go of anger, worry, fear. Choosing to nourish our soul through allowing self-reflection time daily, reading something that is spiritual to you or a meditative walk. All of these lifestyle choices can help to support a healthy state of mind, however when the following elements are practiced in your life, you can experience a higher awareness: Acceptance/Awareness

Top 5 Signs He Could Be The One

Top 5 Signs He Could Be The One

Think your Mr. Next has the potential to be Mr. Right? Before you leap without looking, take an honest inventory of who you’re dating. Before you upgrade Mr. Next to Mr. Right status, you’ll want to ensure you’re reading his signals correctly. See how many of the following 5 essential Mr. Right traits your Mr. Next possesses.

Turning Your Love Luck Around

Turning Your Love Luck Around

When it comes to love, outside of arranged marriages, I don’t believe in luck. To believe in luck you have to believe in the converse. I refuse to believe that Cupid either randomly, karmically, maliciously or otherwise, chooses chosen ones, like a powertripping bouncer at a NY club, to be blessed with the powers of love, leaving the unchosen to sulk in misery as they unknowingly travel a winding path on a quest to eternal loneliness. Nope, I won’t accept that. So while there may not be such a thing as being unlucky in love (removing one more option from your list of explanations offered up to the nagging coupled up population in rebuttal as to why you are still single), there is such a thing as being unopen to love, stupid about love or unavailable in love:

Help! My Ex Wants to Be Sex Buddies

Help! My Ex Wants to Be Sex Buddies

Many women can have a one night stand or a sex buddy without any emotional complications. However, no-strings-attached-sex can be more tricky when it comes to an ex.Here’s some things to think about before hopping into the sack.

The 12 "Ifs" Every Gay Man Must Know About Life

As a Gay Life Coach for gay men, I help guys deal with the "ifs," "ands" and "buts" of life. They are opportunity (ifs), possibility (ands) and uncertainty (buts.) I've developed a list of "if" statements over the years to help make life—surprisingly—a little less "iffy." Here are 12 to get you started: 1. If you think of your body as a device for controlling energy - generating, storing and expending it - you can do truly amazing things with your physical self. 2. If you practice acceptance, responsibility and defenselessness, your life will unfold effortlessly. 3. If you replace your wishbone with your backbone, you will expand beyond measure. Dreaming is critical, but bravery and action are vital. 4. If you move through discomfort, your life will catapult forward. Trust that what's on the other side is better. Be comfortable with being uncomfortable.