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Sad, But True: Breaking Up With Toxic Friends

Sad, But True: Breaking Up With Toxic Friends

As I get older and my life becomes more complicated, I've noticed that my desire to spend time with certain friends has waned. Not that I don't love and care for them, but for various reasons, these friendships have become too complicated or too negative to warrant the effort that it takes to keep them going. How sad.

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How To Set Healthy Relationship Boundaries

Being part of a strong relationship is the ultimate achievement, but only if this is in a healthy and positive way, without giving up what makes you unique. Remember that you and your partner chose each other because of these individualities.

Please Be Kind to Frogs

Please Be Kind to Frogs

Think about the clever line we women often use: it takes some form of “I’ve kissed so many frogs I’ve got the warts to prove it!” or “How many frogs do I have to kiss before I find my prince?”

Why Guys You’re Interested in Aren’t Interested in You

Why Guys You’re Interested in Aren’t Interested in You

One of the great mysteries of the world is still, “Why are guys I’m interested in, not interested in me and vice versa?” It would be statistically impossible that every time you liked someone, they didn't like you. So, what's going on here? As usual, it’s about energy. Everyone is either being male or female energy. Although most men are male energy and most women are female energy, it has nothing to do with gender. Male energy is about doing, thinking and giving. Feminine energy is about being, feeling and receiving. Just as you feel good when you feel feminine, men feel good when they feel masculine. By now, most women know they should let the man pursue and ask them out. However, things start to get skewed when you realize you really like him. At that point, it’s harder to stay in your female energy – which is all about being patient and receptive.

Help! How Do I Talk Dirty in Bed?

Help! How Do I Talk Dirty in Bed?

Talking dirty during sex can be a lot of fun and add a lot to your sexual experience; however, most people don’t have any practice doing it. So it’s probably the lack of practice that’s making you nervous and embarrassed. With a little practice mixed with a bit of courage, you'll be talking sexy in no time!

Anything is Possible

Where do you think you’ll be in 2015? Where would you like to be? Think about it carefully, thoughtfully. Drift into Possibility Thinking mode. Feels wonderful, right? One of the most precious gifts we’re given as human beings is our ability to create our own destiny or vision. It’s a crime that so many people never accept this gift. Others prefer to just give it away, making someone else responsible for it. Think about what you can get done in the next five years. The possibilities are endless, aren’t they? Think about where you were and what you were doing back in 2005. Look at what has changed since then. For most of us, quite a lot. I have a question for you… What are you thinking about doing right now that might take some time to come to make happen? Are you working on a degree or certification? Are you considering taking that dream vacation you’ve being dreaming about for so long? Do you want to change careers? Do you want to lose some weight?