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Expanding Relationship Consciousness

Expanding Relationship Consciousness

     I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the basic philosophical difference between people who think in terms of “either/or” and those who think in terms of “both/and”. The latter is the (albeit in its most simplistic form) basis of Tantric philosophy. In a non-dual world view such as Tantra, either/or doesn’t usually make sense. Either/or supports a belief that one must choose between two things; as if the world were not infinitely abundant with enough room for “both”.

Post Pet Blues

Post Pet Blues

Buster was always there. Our family companion throughout my childhood, Buster somehow found his way in all the pictures and videos from birthdays and holidays now decades back. The Black lab who aged alongside me, went from an energized, playful puppy in the backyard to a sedentary, reliable presence when I returned home every day from school. Life was unknown without Buster who loved doggy treats, loved walks, and most importantly loved us.

For More Intimacy Take a Vacation

For More Intimacy Take a Vacation

Summer is here, and with it comes ideas of lemonade, hammocks on the beach, the breeze blowing through your hair, sounds of the ocean and better sex. What, better sex? Yes, you need to take a break for your marriage. A vacation is good for the heart, soul and your sex life. Most of the recent polls I’ve read reinforce the fact that two thirds of all married couples report having better sex on vacation than they do at home.

One-Night Stands & Sexually Selfish Men

One-Night Stands & Sexually Selfish Men

Us women know that when it comes to one-night stands, there's always a chance that the guy we choose will be sexually selfish - he'll only be interested in his own sexual satisfaction and couldn't care less about the woman's.  Case in point, my client, Shelley. Last week, she went over to a man’s house with nothing but great sex (for both of them) on her agenda.

Secrets on How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores

Secrets on How to Get Your Kids to Do Chores

Tired of nagging, fighting, and blaming your children to get their chores done? You want to have your children clean their room, help around the house, and pick-up after themselves without fighting. Children need support and reminders, yet you are tired of reminding them and nagging. So what's a parent to do? Create a chore chart!

couple at the gym

10 Tips For Losing Weight As A Couple

We've all been there. Boy meets girl. Boy likes girl. Boy takes girl to dinner. Boy and girl enjoy a delicious courtship filled with weekend brunches, impressive candle-lit dinners and double spoons for dessert. We love this period don't we? Exploring fancy restaurants and putting on our chef's hat to prepare that impossible dinner that even Ina Garten would applaud.

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Here's the thing about sex: it's different for every woman. The way we think about it, talk about it, do it or choose not to do it is unique to pretty much every single one of us. Some girls are adamant about only having one partner their whole lives. Some of us see it as sacred, only to be shared within committed relationships, while others are more free and look at various partners as forms of sexual exploration or ways to get to know themselves. And, there are those of us who see it as just plain fun, no strings attached.

How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship

How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship

This guest article from Psych Central was written by Margarita Tartakovsy, M.S. Conflict gets a bad rap. We automatically assume that conflict will collapse a relationship. Some of us avoid conflict like the plague, thinking that if we close our eyes to a potential clash, it doesn’t exist.

Be Kind To Yourself: It’s Better For Your Diet

Be Kind To Yourself: It’s Better For Your Diet

How we beat ourselves up for that brownie or pizza slice! Once we’ve lost control or overdone it, forget about self-care and serenity. But research keeps confirming some ancient wisdom when it comes to eating better. Gentleness, being kind to oneself, paves a better path to success than self-flagellation.

The Apology You Never Received

The Apology You Never Received

The other night I was watching Gene Simmons Family Jewels. Growing up I was a huge KISS fan. I went to my first Kiss concert w/my dad in 1979. And last year I got to experience the other side when I took my three sons to see the band for the first time. In last night’s episode Shannon Tweed , Gene Simmons’ live in girlfriend, and the mother of his children finally has enough of his rock star ways and his “it’s all about me, I’m a rock star” attitude.