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4 reasons you may be alone, over 35, female and not married

4 reasons you may be alone, over 35, female and not married

More and more I am surrounded by women over 35 years of age who want to get married, but cannot find a suitable partner. They have heard the best places to go for singles over 35, have been set up on numerous blind dates, have joined online dating, and still don’t have a ring on their finger. These women are educated, have a great job, great homes, gorgeous, and would make the perfect wife. What’s wrong? When I talk with these women, many think the problem may rest with the guys.

"Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?"

"Why Won't my Partner Have Sex With Me?"

I have worked with individuals and couples for the past 43 years, and I have heard this question countless times: "Why doesn't my partner want to have sex with me?" Over and over, I discover that there is often ONE major reason he or she doesn’t want to have sex.

The Truth About Communicating

The Truth About Communicating

Couples often come to me for help with their communication. In fact, virtually every couple that I have ever seen has stated in one form or another that they have trouble communicating. They are usually referring to the way in which they verbally communicate with each other. However, there is another form of communication that is even more important and largely misunderstood, and that is the way the partners are thinking about each other.

What Kind Of Marriage Do You Want?

What Kind Of Marriage Do You Want?

There is a question I used to dread. As a relationship coach, I often hear clients (especially after a divorce) asking why bother with marriage? With all the gusto they can muster, they will inevitably tell me they will never get married again and that marriage doesn’t work!!! They don’t know anyone with a happy marriage and if it looks happy, it’s probably fake anyway.

Ten Things To Remember On A Date

Ten Things To Remember On A Date

    Relax. Remember that this is only a first date. Don’t get too far ahead of yourself thinking about where the relationship is going. One of the easiest ways to get thrown off balance is to worry about what your date thinks of you. You should be evaluating him. Pay attention closely to what he is saying and doing so that you can decide if he is worthy of you.

Is His Scent Making You Swoon? Could Be The Pheromone Phenomenon!

Is His Scent Making You Swoon? Could Be The Pheromone Phenomenon!

So, my husband borrowed my body wash, and I am still waiting to get it back. He forgot to buy some during our prior trip to the store and he was yelling from the shower, “I need some soap!!!” I went into the shower carrying my body wash and with a smirk said, “This is all I got, but it smells girly”. He rolled his eyes, yanked it from my hands and closed the curtain.

Getting Into College - Is It Really Tougher These Days?

Getting Into College - Is It Really Tougher These Days?

I have taken a very close look at one of the biggest anxiety producers for parents these days: Getting our kids into college. In my research I have found some truths, some myths, and some different ways of looking at this issue that might decrease our own worries and increase the likelihood of success for our kids. In this article I am going to focus on the myth that it is harder than ever to get into college.

Is He Husband Material?

Is He Husband Material?

The other day, my friend was distraught over how his wife has been treating him lately. The two had begun the process of getting divorced when she suddenly had a change in attitude and promised she would change. Sadly, that promise lasted only a couple of weeks. After we discussed the situation, we began exploring what he should expect from his partner and it led me to think about what characteristics I should be looking for in a man so that I don’t end up in a similar situation someday.

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Spirituality: How Erotic Healing Saved My Marriage

I was checking for lipstick on my teeth or unseemly static cling before heading to my first "Full Moon" ceremony, a willing newbie ready for the New Age, when my husband came up behind me. "You look great," Gavin said, peering over my shoulder into the mirror. His gaze was frankly appreciative of my sensuous get-up. "What time do you think you'll be home?"