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Ask Kim: “Am I Too Independent?”

Ask Kim: “Am I Too Independent?”

Question: Kim, I’ve been told by more than one man “you never let me do anything for you”. I don’t know why this is a problem – I thought men want a woman who can take care of herself? Can you clear this up for me, I really want meet a great guy without compromising myself . ~ Carol M., Vancouver

"How to Make Every Man Want You"

"How to Make Every Man Want You"

Do you have a woman in your inner circle who always seems to have guys fall over themselves to do things for her? 

Long before I knew what I know now about men, I had a friend like that. Kelly was petite and charming with a head of thick, long raven black hair and, at the time, appeared to have the super power ability to inspire men wherever she went to do things for her.



"How to TRULY Connect With Your Ideal Man"

"How to TRULY Connect With Your Ideal Man"

There’s nothing like the magical energy of a NEW year to create a fresh, blank canvas to paint a picture of what you want to manifest over the next 12 months – especially in the love department. With so many possibilities, you may not be sure where to start. But, as every artist will attest to, a masterpiece always begins with a vision.

How MIA's "Finger Malfunction" at Superbowl Can Change Your Life

How MIA's "Finger Malfunction" at Superbowl Can Change Your Life

Controversy hit the Superbowl Half-Time Show once again. It wasn't a costume malfunction like Janet Jackson's, but a finger malfunction by MIA that caused an uproar this year. Millions watched in shock as Madonna's performance was upstaged when British singer, M.I.A., flipped her middle finger at the end of her guest appearance in the song.

Defending Gisele

Defending Gisele

by Gregg DeMammos for 21st Century Man http://www.21cman.com Defending someone or something you love is powerful, but we look to comment on Gisele being outspoken like something else is more important, like the accuracy of her statement or her opinion creating some sort of scandal.

3 Easy Ways To Eliminate The Hurtful Thoughts Of Being Cheated On

3 Easy Ways To Eliminate The Hurtful Thoughts Of Being Cheated On

Being cheated on is the most painful experience a person can ever have. It can hurt you very deeply. No medication, not even the strongest painkillers, can take away this kind of pain after infidelity. Your partner is asking for forgiveness. He or she has shown genuine remorse for the things that have happened. Your partner is sorry for the hurt that he or she has caused you and is asking for a second chance.

How To Catch A Good Man

How To Catch A Good Man

Men, by nature, are hunters. They have a natural instinct to track down what they want, find their prey and surmise a plan to go in for the catch. It has been this way since the archival caveman and probably always will be. Although our lives have become increasingly technologically advanced, it does not mean that we, as women, should take away a man’s instinct and love for hunting.

Is Your Marriage Feeling Dead This Valentine's Day?
You can avoid the tombstone for your marriage.

Is Your Marriage Feeling Dead This Valentine's Day?

How do you "celebrate" Valentines' Day when there is that nagging feeling in the pit of your stomach that your partner somewhere back on the road of the relationship has died? One of the most difficult marriage counseling cases is the one where one of the spouses is dead. Marriages where parties are fighting are still engaging, there is still passion on some level. It is the spouse who is “dead on arrival” when it comes to relating in the marriage that brings a very challenging situation to the counseling room. If your spouse has recently suggested you look in the obituaries to find your marriage, read on for some great pointers to give you help and hope.

It’s Official – Online Dating Has Lost Its Stigma

It’s Official – Online Dating Has Lost Its Stigma

Unless you’ve been living in a cave, you probably thought the stigma associated with online dating had already disappeared. However, a team of five researchers has published a report in the February issue in the journal, Psychological Science in the Public Interest to spread the news we already knew. It's ok to tell your friends you've joined an online dating site.

9 Ways to Heal Your Relationships Through Love

9 Ways to Heal Your Relationships Through Love

Did you know that if you focus on only 9 areas of your life you can and will create the most amazing, loving, exciting and passionate relationship that far exceeds your expectations? But where do you begin this process?  Start with this simple word: STOP! STOP STRUGGLING.