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6 Ways Our Heaters Stop Loving & Our A/C Gets Stuck

6 Ways Our Heaters Stop Loving & Our A/C Gets Stuck

At Mars Venus Coaching we use words like: love tank and love heater. Regardless of the terminology we use, when it comes to relationships we are all looking for the same thing: love. We want our partner to love us for who we are with our limitations, after all we’re not perfect. But can we really love our partner for who they are after we’ve experienced their daily limitations and imperfections? If we feel any blame toward our partner, it makes it even more difficult to accept, understand, and forgive our partners limitations.

Smooching in Public? Honolulu leads the Top 10 List for PDA

Smooching in Public? Honolulu leads the Top 10 List for PDA

Chemistry.com, the online dating site operated by IAC/Match.com has released their Top 10 Most and Least Popular U.S. Cities for Public Displays of Affection, more affectionately referred to as PDA. Honolulu, Hawaii, known as one of the most romantic vacation spots ranks as the #1 location where you’ll be more comfortable as you drool all over your sweetheart in public. The newly released list shows which 10 cities rank both as the highest and lowest on the affection totem pole.

How Women Bury Their Pain after Divorce Or Break-Up [VIDEO]

How Women Bury Their Pain after Divorce Or Break-Up [VIDEO]

How long has it been since you got divorced or went through an intense break-up? Do you feel like you’re A-OK again, or no? Are you confident you’ve put your grief to bed, that you've got your life and emotions well under control? The following video may – or may not – cause you to rethink your handle on your divorce/ break-up. In it, I reveal the two most common ways that women bury their feelings of loss. But the scary part is most women aren't even aware they're doing it.

Porn Addict Or Selfish Jerk? Life's More Complicated Than That

Porn Addict Or Selfish Jerk? Life's More Complicated Than That

I’m seeing an epidemic of “porn addiction” in my office. Not of porn addiction, but of “porn addiction.” Here’s how it looks: Wife/girlfriend somehow assumes that husband/boyfriend does NOT watch porn (guess that’s what she means by “he’s one in a million”). One day, his porn watching comes to her attention (he leaves something on the screen, she searches his website history, he gets an email or bill from some friendly porn site, etc.). She freaks.

How you feel about losing your virginity depends… are you a guy o

How you feel about losing your virginity depends… are you a guy o

How you feel about losing your virginity depends… are you a guy or girl? The morning after can be difficult no matter if you are a guy or a girl, but it seems to be more difficult for girls than guys. A study from researchers at Pennsylvania State University reports male university students' body images improved after having sexual intercourse for the first time, while the opposite pattern was found with females.

How to Seduce Your Partner Every Day

How to Seduce Your Partner Every Day

“Dating” is to marriage what “foreplay” is to sex. Dating is the seduction phase of a relationship, the equivalent of the human mating dance where every move is designed to seduce the object of your adoration into loving and wanting you as a mate. In short, once the sparks begin to fly, you intuitively understand that if you’re going to “seal the deal” and get this amazing person to mate with you, you’d better do everything you can to impress, please, and show your best side—not just occasionally, but all day, everyda

Is Fat An Emotion?

Is Fat An Emotion?

The id, ego, and superego of food. The id, ego, and superego of food. Let’s be honest. There is nothing that can make us feel more down about ourselves than not feeling good about our bodies. I am all for inner beauty and being high frequency, but what we look like largely impacts the way we feel about ourselves. If we do not feel good about our physical self it is difficult to fully express a happy emotional self. Our self-hate will be experienced in our energy. We are a physical, emotional, mental and spiritual being. The physical is the first level with the others proceeding up the hierarchy.

Want To Manifest Your Soulmate? Let Me Hold Your Hand......

Want To Manifest Your Soulmate? Let Me Hold Your Hand......

You deserve to have a partner, a beloved--a soulmate--with whom to share their life. Here's The Way! I love this time of year - summer is just around the corner and everything is in bloom and feels so fresh. There's an air of possibility about everything. But I know that if you're single, it could be a particularly lonely time of year. I remember before I met my husband, I used to dread the way summer made me feel like I was missing out on so much because I didn't have a beloved. Do you feel the same way? Do you dread...

Hate To Exercise

Hate To Exercise

Why don't you exercise when you know perfectly well you should? Why do you keep promising yourself you'll join the gym – but never get there? You're huffing and puffing as you climb the stairs at work, irritated with yourself because you know you should be in better shape than this. It's getting harder to get your energy up in the morning, and you feel awfully rundown at night. You're well aware that exercising regularly would change all that, but you just can't seem to pull it together to get yourself into the gym.