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3 Reasons a Man Doesn't Call When He Says He Will

3 Reasons a Man Doesn't Call When He Says He Will

Have you ever had a man tell you after your date that he had a great time and that he'd call you? Over the next couple of days you wait with nervous excitement for the phone to ring and each time it does you jump up, race over to the phone, check the caller ID and then feel a huge sense of disappointment as you realize it's not him. As the days pass you go over the date in your mind over and over looking for answers as to why he's not calling.

Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex

Keeping an Erection During Oral Sex

Question: The last time I was getting oral sex I lost my erection and now it happens often. Why does this happen and what can I do to stop it? This can be a very common experience. As rapidly as blood engorges your penis to make it erect, the blood can just as quickly drain away leaving you limp. In fact, many men also lose their erections during sexual intercourse.

Three Sabotage Breakthrough Secrets

Three Sabotage Breakthrough Secrets

"Catherine, I wanted you to be the first to know.... I got engaged last weekend!" Before Sarah and I met, she was 38, wanted to have children of her own and hadn't dated in 5 years. 8 months later she sent me an email with her good news! Now she is planning her wedding! Ready to March into March with an action plan for melting your self sabotage patterns before Spring? Could there be a wedding for you in 2011?

Caution... Alcohol Makes Dating/Hook Ups Hazardous

Caution... Alcohol Makes Dating/Hook Ups Hazardous

Around this time last year I was asked to comment on an HLN story that took place in the Mid West. The story was about a hook up gone wrong when a man met a woman at a party and fell for her. They didn’t know each other, but they both knew the host. They were both drinking and seemed to engage with each other very well. When the party began breaking up and people were leaving, the woman asked the man if he wanted to go home with her.

Avoid Complacency: 4 Tips on How to Date Your Mate

Avoid Complacency: 4 Tips on How to Date Your Mate

The enemy of a great relationship is complacency. It begins so innocently. You forget how attractive, funny or caring your honey is because you’re together all the time. You get wrapped up in your “stuff” and forget to do the little, day-to-day things that make your sweetheart aware of your love. You forget how good life feels because you picked someone amazing and the lottery win of being picked back. Before you know it, you reach the relationship expiration date— the day one of you wakes up and thinks, “What am I doing here?” 


Celebrity Saboteurs: Anne Hathaway - Luminous Snow White

Celebrity Saboteurs: Anne Hathaway - Luminous Snow White

"I'd like to be a mom within 5 years."  Anne Hathaway told James Franco in a recent interview on Good Morning America, making inquiring minds wonder what kind of man will be hers when she is ready for motherhood. While the undeniable chemistry Hathaway enjoys with Franco is delicious and will make for a great Oscar Show, can Anne attract someone in real life with that kind of intoxicating chemistry and a good guy too?  The collapse of her relationship with Italian real estate developer Raffaello Follieri in 2008 and the

How To Find Your Mate

How To Find Your Mate

I’ll admit it, I’m a romantic. Not a hopeless one, but a hopeful one.  I love love. Thankfully, I have love in my life, though I remember the time when this was not so. In this post, I’d like to help you find your intimate relationship partner, by sharing something about how I found mine.  If you will, consider this my own ‘Laws of Attraction,’ because it made all the difference for me. It just might make the difference for you.

Spiritual Retreats Lead To Love

Spiritual Retreats Lead To Love

     I believe that in the modern world, while being raised to be part of society, we automatically disconnect from the wild magic we were born with. How can we find our own true love, when the truest part of us is missing?      My years of spiritual practice has taught me that each of us is imprinted with specific, unique knowledge that we were always meant to share with the world at large, and with our love partner in particular.

Woman yelling on phone

3 Reasons To Get Good And Mad At Your Man

Many of the women I work with tell me that they have trouble expressing their anger with their partner. Either they blow up and lose control, or they hold back and never say what they really feel. In both instances, a woman is not being authentic when she does not express her true feelings. And men feel safer loving women who feel authentic. It may not be something he can even put words to, but he just knows when she is being who she really is.