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Relationships: Why Do You Attack and Blame?

Relationships: Why Do You Attack and Blame?

"A woman who I was dating and who I really liked ended our relationship and is dating someone else. I see her all the time at the market and I feel like yelling at her." "I keep vowing not to, but I keep getting really angry at my husband when he is distant." "I lost my temper with my assistant and now she is suing me. I just can't seem to help getting furious when people mess up."

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10 Steps To Smooth, Sexy Skin

I struggled with acne for years. I tried every lotion, potion, contraption and medication on the market, but it wasn't until I changed things from the inside out that I found a lasting difference. I know, it might seem too simple, but I really did heal my acne with diet. Below are my top 10 suggestions for how you can get super model skin without breaking the bank on fancy products or poisoning yourself by meddling with medications.

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Win Over Your Mother-In-Law In 5 Simple Steps

My mother-in-law is great. Thoughtful, helpful, smart, and not the least bit annoying to hang out with — even over long periods of time. And no, I'm not just saying this because she might stumble upon this article online! When I hear all the horror stories from my friends, I thank my lucky stars that I somehow managed to snag not only the perfect guy — but a great mother-in-law to boot. Sorry to brag, but, trust me, she's worth bragging about! So how did she become so awesome? Well, she gives all the credit to her own mother-in-law — who, she claims, was the best mother-in-law ever. And every day, she says, she tries to live by her example.

My Abortion, My Secret Heart Ache

My Abortion, My Secret Heart Ache

Ask any parent what their worst imaginable fear would be and they would probably answer, “to lose one of my children to death.” Now, imagine losing a child to death and never crying about it. Worse yet, imagine choosing to not have that child because of tough circumstances you are in at the time. This is the situation for over 50 million parents in our nation who’ve chose abortion as a solution to an unplanned pregnancy. The idea of grief over an abortion choice is a foreign concept in our culture. The legality

How Can Our Marriage Survive the Stress?

How Can Our Marriage Survive the Stress?

In a world where one trillion is a household world, the stresses of just surviving life can become an overwhelming endeavor. More than ever, couples need to know how to stay connected through the trials coming their way. I work with couples every week who are in complete survival mode. It’s like they are on a treadmill playing a game of ping pong. That plastic ball keeps coming at them from who knows what direction. They bat it away but it comes back. All the while they are trying to stay upright and running on the moving platform beneath them.

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Single Over 40? The Best Asset You Don't Know You Have

What's different about your dating landscape at 40 than it was 20 years ago? Everything. But many women still follow the "good old strategy" that says they just need to look good, play the dating game, and meet as many new people as possible. Sooner or later, they'll find a partner good enough to settle for. Common sense, right? Wrong.

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5 Food Label Dealbreakers

I'm totally confused when I read food labels. What am I supposed to look for? Sometimes the forces that be make it complicated to know what to eat. There's so much conflicting information available, it's easy to be confused by nutritional information. Therefore, I thought I'd try to cut through some of the label claims and conflicting "truths," and share some of my label dealbreakers that make it easy-peasy to know what to put in your basket ... and what to leave on the shelf.

Get Off Your Bar Stool & Start Talking To Each Other!

Get Off Your Bar Stool & Start Talking To Each Other!

  I need to address something that I have noticed for the last few years in the dating world. After spending a few evenings out with the girls this past month, I see very little  interaction between single men & women. It is exasperating to watch this “non event” happen at every establishment visited throughout the course of the evening. It reminds me of a Grade 8 dance, boys on one side of the room & girls on the other.

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What To Do When He Cheats & Leaves

Breaking up is hard enough, but when there's another woman involved, it's doubly difficult. It doesn't matter if she is drop dead beautiful or looks like moldy cheese; either way feels like someone stuck a knife in your back. It's particularly hard to overcome the heartbreak when another woman comes into the picture because you feel out of control. Any chance you might have had to work things out with him seems to vanish because he now has this new woman in his life. Your shaken ego will desperately try to repair it's hurt pride by urging you to find out why this happened — as if finding an explanation could make you feel better. You'll scrutinize his feelings and begin to assume all kinds of reasons why he picked her over you. This won't fix your heartbreak. This will only end up with you blaming yourself up for lacking something that she must have.