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3 Mistakes You May Make When Looking For Love [EXPERT]
Follow these three steps to find your perfect partner.

3 Mistakes You May Make When Looking For Love

Choosing your life partner is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. When you find the man who'll be beside you every day, it impacts every aspect of your life. So, when I see women who approach finding their "soulmate" with so little concern about it's true importance, I feel overwhelming frustration.

Valuating Your Personal Currency

Valuating Your Personal Currency

Currency valuation is big business. There are lots of very smart people in the world running calculations, hypotheticals, and analyses every day to determine the value of the dollar, the yen, the euro etc. But what we are talking about today is very different. I want to talk to you about your personal currency. Your personal currency is your attention, your intellect, your creative capacity. It is your time, your energy, your health and your love.

Increase Your Strength By Reducing Your Vulnerabilities

Increase Your Strength By Reducing Your Vulnerabilities

At times we can feel as though our emotional reactions take control of us and we have no choice but to follow in their destructive path. The truth is that everyone has the ability to be in control during difficult times and that it takes work to get there. Part of that work is reducing your vulnerabilities so that you can feel stronger and more able to face life.

All Thumbs? Don't Let Texting Ruin Your Love Life [EXPERT]
More than ever, singles are texting to connect with their dates.

All Thumbs? Don't Let Texting Ruin Your Love Life

Can a text message ruin your chances of meeting your soulmate? As a matchmaker, I am privy to what is really going on before, during, and after my clients' dates. Today I want to share with you how texting is actually preventing many fabulous singles from ever meeting in the first place.

3 Ways To Put The Spark Back In Your Marriage [EXPERT]
Make your marriage stronger than ever.

3 Ways To Put The Spark Back In Your Marriage

You know the punch-lines to all his jokes. You're that couple who sit in a restaurant with nothing to say. At bedtime you never thought you'd be pretending to have a headache. "I can't make myself feel any different," one woman in my office told me tearfully. "The magic's gone."

4 Ways To Discuss Sexuality Safely

4 Ways To Discuss Sexuality Safely

I’ve talked to some clients that would rather trade in their cush desk job to work in a barn for six months than talk about sexuality with their partners! Most people don’t know where to begin with the conversation and are completely fine not ever bringing it up. However, you both are missing big opportunities to get closer by not discussing it. Here are some tools on how to navigate through these conversations:

My "9 1/2 Weeks" With John The Dom

My "9 1/2 Weeks" With John The Dom

During the first year of my divorce, I went through an intense sexual awakening.  For the first time in my life, I dared to listen to – and follow – what my body wanted, from dating younger men and attending a sex club, to flying off to different country to meet dashing and exciting new lovers…

You Are Not My Mother Or My Father!

You Are Not My Mother Or My Father!

It fascinates me to see how we all dance in relationship in similar ways. Aspects of every love story break-up or dysfunction can be recognized in our own lives. I have experienced my heart shutting down when a man in my life behaves like the little boy, needy for love, or the bad little boy, guilty and afraid that he will not be loved. Yes, it can be a turn off, but closing my own heart will only create a separation between us. While he is feeling his wound from childhood, he is looking for approval or love.

9 Facts You Need To Know About Sex Addiction [EXPERT]
There are many reasons why people lose control of their sexual behaviors.

9 Facts You Need To Know About Sex Addiction

While some people are inappropriately labeled "sex addicts" — providing a blanket excuse for all kinds of irresponsible sexual behavior — others truly suffer from uncontrollable sexual impulses, or sex addiction. The main symptoms of sex addiction include a loss of control, failed attempts to stop unwanted sexual behavior, and a pattern of negative consequences from anxiety to depression and legal problems. Here are some facts about sex addiction you may not know.