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HOLIDAY SEX-SAVER:Keeping the Spark Alive when Family's Underfoot

HOLIDAY SEX-SAVER:Keeping the Spark Alive when Family's Underfoot

Holidays are prime time for out-of-town family to show up on your doorstep – or for you to appear on theirs. You might think that sharing space with mom, dad, or siblings will put quite a damper on your sex-life, but it actually doesn’t have to cramp your style. In fact, those “walls with ears” can even set the scene for a hotter happy holiday. Here's how.

The Top 5 Signs That You Might Be A Booty Call

The Top 5 Signs That You Might Be A Booty Call

This topic may be taboo for some and a reality for others. If you have dated for any length of time you have been a “Booty Call” a time or two. Yes, this means you! There is no shame in it, hell there has even been a movie titled Booty Call. Some of us have been a willing “Booty Call” and others have been one unsuspectingly.

Divorce: It Doesn't Have To Be Upstream

Divorce: It Doesn't Have To Be Upstream

If you are in the process of divorcing or are recently divorced, please know that you are not alone. The feelings and thoughts you are having are typical, universal, and even healthy – as long as you process them in a healthy manner. Fear, denial, guilt, failure, self-doubt, anger, low self-esteem, sadness, anxiety may all be present. Divorcing a spouse is often an emotionally-charged transition, a life change replete with mental, physical, emotional, even spiritual hurdles.

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Don't go stag! Grab a friend and enjoy the holiday festivities!

What To Do When You're Single During The Holidays

Now that the holidays are looming and people are ramping up for parties and gatherings of all kinds, I'm starting to hear single people murmuring about wanting to shrink and hibernate for a while. They admit they don't find the glamour of the holidays quite as tinsel perfect as their dating and married friends.

Online Dating…Last Resort or First?

Online Dating…Last Resort or First?

Online dating is no longer the internet equivalent of the bar scene. In fact, according to a recent study in Cyberpsychology & Behavior, (Kim et al, 2009) internet daters are more likely to be sociable, have high self-esteem and experience less anxiety in their dating lives. Contrary to popular belief, this study found no evidence that people turned to online dating because they were desperate or socially inept.

 Men and Heartbreak

Men and Heartbreak

I have been the beneficiary of magnificent male mentors. From dating tips to elevator pitches, I have received outstanding advice from men. Yet, there is one piece of advisement that stands out amongst the myriad of bestowed male wisdom. I started my professional career at Vogue magazine. And just in case you’re wondering, The Devil Wears Prada (book and movie) was an accurate depiction of what happens behind-the-scenes at the largest fashion magazine in the world. Ugliness thrives amidst all of that beauty.

4 Ways To Bring Him Emotionally Closer To You

4 Ways To Bring Him Emotionally Closer To You

I believe that emotional intimacy is the MAIN component of a love relationship that keeps a man invested long-term. Most older women can’t compete with 25-year-olds and 30-somethings sauntering through their husbands’ work spaces in miniskirts and push-up bras, but the wise older wives have something much more significant than toned bodies and flawless skin: they have years’ worth of happy marital memories, which have enhanced their ability to hold their husband

Meeting My Woman

Meeting My Woman

Before coming together with my woman, I make time for some quiet moments to feel my power and center myself. I want to connect with the feeling, for myself and for her, that I occupy the masculine role in our relationship. In addition, there are qualities and ways of being that I want to put in place for myself and my beloved. I want to consciously connect with all of these in preparation for loving each other. To this end I’ve written a “Pre-flight Checklist”. for myself. Remember it's a self-checklist and so it won't read like a novel or story.

Oh Baby It's Cold Inside

Oh Baby It's Cold Inside

Brrrrr When temperatures drop and the weather gets icy and cold, it can be a great excuse to cuddle up with your love in front of a fire or in bed. How delicious to make love with your partner or just spoon under a big cozy blanket! How horrible when you and your partner are locked in conflict or frozen by hard feelings and resentments. When it's cold INSIDE your relationship, there is no fun, no passion and it can feel like there's no love either.