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Strut Your Stuff: Walk Your Way To A Sexier Self
A confident walk may be all you need to make men swoon!

Strut Your Stuff: Walk Your Way To A Sexier Self

There are many aspects to attraction. There's the physical and there's the mental. So let's take a look at the physical. You probably have a certain body type in a man that you are attracted to — correct? He must be tall, dark and handsome. Sound familiar? Well, take a good look next time you are out. You may notice that there are many, many men that don't fit this bill ... and it's the same for women.

Are You or Your Partner Possessive?

Are You or Your Partner Possessive?

"I freak out when my partner even looks at another woman. I trust him not to wander, so I don't know why this upsets me so much." "My partner spends too much time with her friends and family. What's the point of being together if she's always gone a couple of nights a week?" "My wife wants to go back to school now that the children are older. She doesn't need to work, so why does she want to do this? It's going to take up way too much of her time."

Coping with Pregnancy Loss & Miscarriage

Coping with Pregnancy Loss & Miscarriage

You have recently experienced a pregnancy loss. Perhaps you miscarried, perhaps your baby was stillborn, or perhaps you have experienced the shock of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS). Whichever it may be, you lost your baby. Your grief and pain are overwhelming. You are feeling this grief on a body level. Your stomach may be upset, you might have diarrhea, joint pains, or headaches. You may feel as if you are choking, like you can;t get air. You could be looking for your baby throughout the house, or thinking that you hear your baby crying.

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Postpartum Depression and the Myth of the Natural Mother

We live with the myth of the natural mother. The truth is that many social behaviors, including mothering, are learned behaviors. It might be easier to discuss communication and relationship skills within a marriage as a learned behavior than mothering. If you grow up in an abusive or just non-communicative home, it is likely that when you marry, you will discover that you need some help in the how-tos of a relationship. It is the same type of thing when becoming a mother.

Postpartum Doula Can Help Lift Your Mood Postpartum

Postpartum Doula Can Help Lift Your Mood Postpartum

What is a postpartum doula? A postpartum doula is a woman hired to “mother the mother” after childbirth. The postpartum doula fills multiple roles in emotional support, babycare, and also helping with light household chores. However, a postpartum doula does not provide medical advice or assistance.

Why She Won't Sleep With You

Why She Won't Sleep With You

Recently, when I was shopping, I came across a notepad with a very cute saying on it. "All I want is world peace and a pedicure." Is this too ambitious? Perhaps, all your girlfriend wants is for you to stop yelling and give her a foot massage?! All jokes aside, how do you expect to have a great sexual relationship when all you do is fight? Sometimes, men, -and in all fairness, women - like to break up just to make -up, because the make-up sex is so good, of course!

Depression: A Natural Outcome Of Abortion Secrets

Depression: A Natural Outcome Of Abortion Secrets

Our culture tends to confuse the legalities of abortion with the actual process of coping after a difficult decision. There is an implied message that the abortion is the closure, which is simply not true. Choosing to have an abortion and feeling okay with the decision doesn't mean that a natural grieving process won't happen.

How To Find The One in A Sea Of Many

How To Find The One in A Sea Of Many

I get asked over and over again, why is it so hard to meet and connect with a great guy who is looking for what I am. I am tired of dating aimlessly and I am tired of meeting guys who just want to get laid and not really try to invest in a lasting relationship. What can I do to shorten this never-ending experience? Here are 3 of the most important things that get you there fast:  

How To Find The One in A Sea Of Many

How To Find The One in A Sea Of Many

I get asked over and over again, why is it so hard to meet and connect with a great guy who is looking for what I am. I am tired of dating aimlessly and I am tired of meeting guys who just want to get laid and not really try to invest in a lasting relationship. What can I do to shorten this never-ending experience? Here are 3 of the most important things that get you there fast:  

First Comes Love..., then comes Marriage Education?

First Comes Love..., then comes Marriage Education?

S__ & M___ sitting in a tree, K-I-S-S-I-N-G, first come love..., then comes marriage. Any couple in a successful marriage will tell you that you will reap the benefits for how much effort, time, and investment you put into learning new skills to connect, communicate, and be intimate with one another. If you invest in your couplehood, then you keep the sexual energy, attraction, and devotion within your relationship. You not only fireproof what you have together, it gets better each year. It's also fool proof.