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Out of 'Like' With Your Partner
Falling out of "like" with your partner is just as detrimental as falling out of love.

How To Fall 'In Like' With Your Spouse

It can be uncomfortable and maybe even a little scary to realize that you don't necessarily like your spouse. There might not be anything horribly wrong with your partner... except for those dozens (or more) of "little" things that you disapprove of or that get on your nerves. These "little" irritations may be things that you bite your lip and remain silent about, or they could be what you nag and fight about.

Forget About Resolutions and Set Goals Instead1

Forget About Resolutions and Set Goals Instead1

Do you find yourself wondering again this year, why did I bother to make resolutions? Each year draws to a close with unmet resolutions and feelings of depression can soon ensue. You can make this coming year different with a few easy changes! It all starts with dreaming! Simply dreaming though does not help in having a successful year. You’ve dreamily made resolutions, writing them down and promptly forgot them. Is it any wonder that many fall by the wayside before the end of January!

Relationship Coaching in Sex Life Coaching

Relationship Coaching in Sex Life Coaching

While it's true that the largest portion of sex life coaching that Betty and I do for our clients surrounds the exciting subject materials, we also are there to coach clients through relationship issues as they pertain to their shared sex life. This is a blog on my most recent session with a couples client we'll call, "Judy and Keith." They gave me permission to discuss these specific sections of their coaching.

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 1

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 1

There are more individuals “coming out of the closet” to live their sexual truths than ever before in history (well at least it appears that way!). Why? The most obvious reason is that homosexuality is becoming more accepted.

Is It Time to Get a Second Opinion to Save Your Marriage?

Is It Time to Get a Second Opinion to Save Your Marriage?

You've pretended that the problems weren't there. You've thought and thought about the troubles in your marriage searching for a solution. You've talked and maybe even argued with your partner about this challenge you face. Maybe you two have stopped talking about your marital problem because it feels too big and impossible to deal with.

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Don't let the barriers of race and ethnicity leave you feeling lonely!

Lonely? Try Dating Outside Your Race!

The quest to find love is as old as the fairy tales we've read about; knights in shining armor coming to save damsels in distress and a kiss turning a frog into a prince. But alas, if finding love were as easy as reading fairy tales, we'd all be in better shape. The truth is, it's rough out here for various reasons I'll write about at a later date. Why make a challenging situation even harder by erecting the added barriers of race and ethnicity?

Are Single Moms Hiding Their Sex Lives?
What are divorced and single moms thinking about when it comes to sex?

Poll: Are Single Moms Hiding Their Sex Lives? [EXPERT]

YourTango Expert Delaine Moore investigates what's really happening in the bedrooms of divorced and single moms. Are single moms attending to their sexual needs? Are they quietly abstaining or could it be that a revolution of sorts is happening and more moms are having unattached sex than ever?

Ask Kim: “Ask for what you want in the bedroom”

Ask Kim: “Ask for what you want in the bedroom”

Question: "I have met a wonderful man but the sex isn’t great and I am wondering how do I approach or discuss it with him without making him feel inadequate and get my own needs met?” – R.G., Calgary AB Answer: Appreciate you writing in A.G with this very important and sensitive question. Matters of the heart are tricky enough, add sex into the mix and it can easily become a minefield.

What You Can Learn from Kim Kardashian

What You Can Learn from Kim Kardashian

I know. You’re rolling your eyes and going “puhleeeez, Kim, no more tabloid fodder!”, yes? Well, as you know, I’m all about conscious relating and sometimes the attention given to celebrities making really bad mistakes can become excellent teaching points for what NOT to do. And, this would be the case with the recent news of Kim Kardashian and her “72 day” marriage.