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6 Steps To Decide If It's Time To Call It Quits

6 Steps To Decide If It's Time To Call It Quits

January is the peak time for divorces to be filed. As a coach, I am frequently asked to give my opinion on whether it's time to call it quits. This is an opinion I will not give, for several key reasons. Only you know whether you have the hope and desire to continue fighting for your relationship. Making a rule about "when" either tends to keep people trapped who need to be free, or gives manipulators a tool to justify their own bad behavior. Only you know what's really going on in your relationship.

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You!

What You Don't Know Can Hurt You!

Just a little tired all the time, dealing with vague aches and pains...or really sick? Is your body working overtime to keep you healthy? Maryanne has three live radio shows each week, and on Maryanne Live she interviewed Deanna Duke, whose journey to health led her to write The Non-Toxic Avenger. We think her results are so important that we're sharing them here.

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Having faith can allow a lot of light into your life!

Faith: A Step Toward Healing

My eight year old son walks around with a box of rocks everywhere he goes and tells everyone that he is a geologist. When people ask if that is what he wants to be when he grows up, he always replies, "I am a geologist. I don't have to grow up to know what I am." This is the simplest example of faith. When you want something so bad and you can say you have become it or have received it, you have acquired faith. Retaining faith is when you can truly believe something in your heart, even when others doubt you or you feel your world has fallen apart. Some people may call it the secret or the power. Whatever you feel comfortable calling it, it simply is pure faith.

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Brad & Angelina already have 6 kids...are they trying to prove a point with baby #7?

Is Angelina Jolie Trying Too Hard?

She's stunningly beautiful, has Brad Pitt and six other children, both biological and adopted (best of both worlds there); add in an Academy Award, a successful film career and the eyes and interest of the world, and you've pretty much got every dream covered. What could she possibly have to prove? Call me crazy, but for some reason, this last pregnancy announcement just smacks of desperation to me. Really, Angelina? Seven?!

How To Have A Great Valentine’s Day With Your Partner!

How To Have A Great Valentine’s Day With Your Partner!

Jamie and Kurt are a sweet, successful couple in their early thirties. In spite of loving each other deeply, they often find themselves in conflict over seemingly minor issues, as most couples do. Recently, just one week before Valentine's Day, they had a particularly hurtful argument. Jamie had expressed her unhappiness about Kurt's busy schedule and the limited time he finds to spend with her. As usual, Kurt promised to try harder and they got through it. But having not dealt with the real issues at hand, the problem was bound to resurface.

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 4

Frankly My Dear I'm Gay - Part 4

Thus far in this series, we’ve addressed the why, what, and how questions that you may find yourself asking after a spouse declares, “Frankly My Dear I’m Gay!” Each of these questions presents unique nuances and a multitude of answers.

Can't Let Go: How to Move On After Divorce

Can't Let Go: How to Move On After Divorce

Maybe it's only been a few weeks or months or possibly even years since your marriage ended. Maybe your friends and family have been sympathetic and supportive, but now you suspect they are wondering the same question that is lurking at the back of your own mind... “When will I finally move on after the divorce?”

Getting Over 4 Excuses To Post A Great Picture Online

Getting Over 4 Excuses To Post A Great Picture Online

You haven’t posted any pictures on that Online Dating Site you finally joined as part of your quest to stop kissing Toads, right? That means you’re working against the magic of these sites – bringing like-minded people together to meet, flirt, and possibly, fall in love. You wouldn’t expect to meet your Prince Charming at the cocktail party if you hid in the powder room all evening, would you?

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"Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game." - A Cinderella Story

Are You Running Away From Love?

Everyone knows about the commitment-phobic guy, but what's really not talked about is the woman who shies away from a true connection. Not long ago, "Marin" asked me how to handle her avoidance of relationships. Witnessing her parents' divorce and experiencing the resulting trauma in the family, she'd made a conscious decision to make sure she never found herself trapped in a bad relationship. Like so many in her shoes, she was confusing the issues, and making choices based on the wrong criteria.