Simple concept. If you aren’t giving from a surplus, it’s not giving. It’s sacrificing. A sacrifice has a very different energy. It’s tight, constricted, and anxious. It may be done in love, but it’s sacrifice just the same.
As incredible as oral sex may be, many women report that the experience is tinged with loneliness.
Very often when women are in chaos, they give messages of, ‘Stay away, I don’t need you,’ while they crave just the opposite. Is it a test? - possibly. But it is more about fear of disappointment and self-protection.
Are you also covered in sludge? I think we all are - to some degree. Our personal muck is a concoction of all those things that hold us back - from our goals and from our joys.
The more divorcees you know, the higher your chances are of joining them. So divorce, rather than being a private upheaval, is now considered a collective phenomenon with far reaching tentacles.
What is your self talk and whose voice are you hearing? Self talk can be uplifting and empowering or depressing an self defeating.
If you've been objectified for your looks your entire life, the answer may just be "yes"...
I asked people what they thought about virtual sex. It was a unanimous opinion: virtual sex was a form of cheating.
Last week a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man.
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