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Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise

Divorce Usually Isn't A Surprise

Divorce is always good for women, if not right away, then eventually. I say this because women typically do not divorce on a whim, they do so after years sacrificing their wants and needs for the benefit of others, until they finally learn that unhappiness is not par for the course. Women take unhappiness more seriously than men because unhappiness takes a bigger toll on us.

What Do Your Past Relationships Reveal About You?

What Do Your Past Relationships Reveal About You?

Truth tellin’ time, ya’ll. You’ve had some relationships. Some great ones and some horrible ones and maybe most were somewhere a little bit of both. No matter how they turned out, they all revealed something about you. Something important. Something that you can learn from and evolve from and ultimately, if you want to, be able to gather your energy in such a way that you become a powerful magnet for your true love and living your dream life with him.

A Healthy Indifference Test

A Healthy Indifference Test

Whether you are trying to start, stop or continue a habit of any kind, success lies in developing a healthy indifference toward the matter.  Indifference may not sound like a positive state.  Indifference can imply medicrity or lack of interest; however, indifference is the opposite of compulsion.  Creating healthy indifference is one of the fundamental lessons I teach in our Colorado Wellness Retreats. Guests leave the retreats with the ability to make a decision and stick to it.

Discussing Sex & Rape With Our Daughters

Discussing Sex & Rape With Our Daughters

I know that this question alone raises many eyebrows; especially since my memoir, which is still in production, recounts the many experiences that have led me to this point in my life as N. Meridian, the writer who shrouds herself behind words. However, because of my past, because of my daughter, I feel the need to protect her while hiding in plain sight.

How To Shape Your Body To The Sexiest It Has Ever Been!

How To Shape Your Body To The Sexiest It Has Ever Been!

You can shape a sexy body regardless of your body type! Use training techniques that will bring out the best of your body type. You are most likely a combination of any of the following 4 basic body types. So don’t worry, just do the hard work based on your body type and follow your meal plan. If you don't eat properly, you won't shape your best body. Its possible to have layers of fat covering those hard-earned muscles!

How Do You Communicate Your Love Language?

How Do You Communicate Your Love Language?

What is your love language? How do you feel loved? How do you know that your partner or friend values you and truly “gets you?” Do you sometimes feel you are speaking completely different languages and that there is a disconnect in what you say and do and what the other person hears and acts on? Do you know how your partner or friend feels loved? What is the language of love and do we each have our own?

What's Your Number? To Tell or Not

What's Your Number? To Tell or Not

I often get asked how much one should actually divulge about their past sexual partners when getting into a new relationship. First off, I want to say that keeping the lines of communication open and honest are tremendously important. Second off, I’d like to follow up with – not every detail about your partner’s past is essential.

Unlucky In Love? Why You Shouldn't Shut The Door [EXPERT]
Don't let a few bad dates keep you from finding love.

Unlucky In Love? Why You Shouldn't Shut The Door

Life was so simple when you were young and not so hyper-focused on attracting a relationship. You enjoyed dating and just assumed Mr. Right would show up when the stars were aligned. After playing in the dating pool, you made a decision that you were ready for love and the lightness seemed to change. The search for the one became a serious mission and a process of dating drudgery.