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Book Clubbing: Singles’ Book Night

Book Clubbing: Singles’ Book Night

By Zoe Rogers Crazy for books and book clubs? You’re not alone! The popularity of book clubs is soaring. “The Encyclopedia of Community: From the Village to the Virtual World, notes that in 2003, a Google search for “book club” returned 424,000 hits; now it returns 40 million…”

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When you are tempted to call an ex: Stop, Drop, and Roll!

Feeling Tempted To Call An Ex?

My "Stop, Drop, and Roll" technique is my tried and true, all-time favorite method for avoiding Relationship Groundhog Day (the insanity of doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result), which is what we do when we make impulsive, unconscious choices like calling an ex when we know better.

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Women love shoes...but do you take your shoe shopping a little TOO far?

Might As Well Face It...You're Addicted to Shoes!

I recently met a successful surgeon who bragged that she had her UPS guy on speed dial to take advantage of the free return service offered by a well known online shoe store. The problem? This same surgeon is tens of thousands of dollars in debt, still paying off her med school loans and wanting help from me to understand her depression, stress and compulsive shopping. My doctor colleague needs to get a hold of her self esteem issues that lie underneath her shopping addiction before she will ever experience the freedom she craves. Money issues are only a symptom of an imbalanced life.

How To Unlock Your Inner Sex Goddess

How To Unlock Your Inner Sex Goddess

Do you want to know how to unlock the beautiful, feminine, sexual being that you are? Do you want to unlock the power that will make men swoon? Do you want to be in control of whom you attract into your life? I’m going to share an exercise that I’ve talked about before that I want all of you to do. It's one of the best exercises in the world. I'll give you a little background:

5 Tips For Meeting Good Men

5 Tips For Meeting Good Men

  How often do we hear women affirm that "there just are no more good men left, or that the ones left are all players, dogs or jerks who do not know how to treat a woman?"  I know that I hear it so often that if I had a dime for each time I heard it, I would be Oprah rich! The fact is that there are more than a few good men out there; you just need to know where and how to find them. Read below and find out how and where single women are meeting their husbands everyday! 1. Be Ready To Recieve Love.

3 Ways To Improve Your Declining Sex Life

3 Ways To Improve Your Declining Sex Life

If you are disappointed and angry that your sex life has gone down the tubes, it may be because you and your partner have put yourselves in roles where sex is forbidden -taboo- a big no no! It's probably something that isn't obvious but that has a grip on the relationship, preventing any sex other than one of duty and performance. There are three ways you can get out of the stranglehold and enjoy a fulfilling sex life again. The story of David and Melanie show you how.

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Can you really forgive & forget something like domestic abuse?

What Does The Future Hold for Rihanna & Chris Brown?

Chris Brown and Rihanna just recorded a song together and are reportedly hooking up, but has either of them really changed since Brown physically assaulted Rihanna in 2009? Should they cut all ties, or is forgiveness in their situation healthy? In my expert opinion, the answer is neither!

5 Ways To Get Your Partner In The Mood With a Condom

5 Ways To Get Your Partner In The Mood With a Condom

Every single part of sex should be fun. Yes, even the condom part. Hey, all the more reason to spice things up in the bedroom right? Here are a few of our favorite ways to integrate safe sex into your routine. 1. Role Play: What man doesn’t love a “naughty nurse” night? Dress up in your medical best, and tell him he is due for a “check up”. Make it the grand finale (well, at least to the role playing part), and slip a condom on. Just make sure you are doing it right.