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Getting Down To Busyness

Getting Down To Busyness

I’ve been delinquent in writing here lately, but it certainly is not because I’ve been lazy. Or maybe I have. A saying I ponder often is: busyness is a form of laziness. I know it is true for me. There is a never ending stream of “things to do.” Email, chores, clients to see, family duties, email, paying bills, keeping in touch with people, articles to both read and write, shopping, email, books to read, videos to watch, facebook, ema

Parenting As A Privilege: The Challenge Of Sleep

Parenting As A Privilege: The Challenge Of Sleep

I can only imagine how different parenting would feel if I viewed it as a prison instead of a privilege. Parenting is the toughest job on earth, and can push our buttons beyond anything we’ve known. It’s also the greatest privilege, for where else do we have daily access to a living, breathing angel? Where else are we so close to representatives of God, to these beings whose hearts shine with unadulterated purity and grace? And where else do we have daily opportunities to see our growing edges so we can work to expand them?

Top 10 Reasons You Leave Your Partner Due To Fear

Top 10 Reasons You Leave Your Partner Due To Fear

Fear’s entire mission in life is to keep you safe from the risk of loving. It sees love as a dangerous cesspool where the invisible sea creatures lurk beneath the dark surface, waiting to snatch you into their murky waters. Fear believes that if you risk your heart through committed loving you will endure unbearable loss: you will either lose yourself in some way or you will lose your partner. Either way, fear tells you to run because it’s trying to protect you from an unpredictable risk.

Unleash The Super Model In You

Unleash The Super Model In You

It’s that time of year again! Are you one of the women for whom the appearance of Sports Illustrated’s swimsuit issue inspires shock and awe ... shock at your image in the mirror and awe for her beauty? Did cover model, Kate Upton, just up the standard for sexy, sensual and hot for you? It’s very hard to ignore how eagerly men await this annual jaw dropping exercise!! Where does that leave 99% of humanity?

Dear Dr. Romance: Is It Possible to Love Someone without Ever Dat

Dear Dr. Romance: Is It Possible to Love Someone without Ever Dat

Dear Dr. Romance: Is it possible to love someone without ever dating them? If so, how can you tell that you are in love? Dear Reader: Yes, it's possible to fall in love without dating. For example, if you have a close friend, classmate, work associate, neighbor or friend of a friend that you have spent time with (without dating) you can become attached. Most of the time, however, loving someone from afar has a strong fantasy component, which can be misleading.

Your Parents Can Help You Find Mr. Right

Your Parents Can Help You Find Mr. Right

Watching this week's episode of "The Bachelor" (the show is my one guilty pleasure ... I love the exotic locals and watching the fun thrill of first dates), I felt sad for Kacie B. when The Bachelor's Ben Flajnik sent her home.  She seemed devastated and confused.   "What the #*?! just happened?!" she repeatedly exclaimed.

Aftermath Of The Drunken St. Patty's Day Text

Aftermath Of The Drunken St. Patty's Day Text

5 shots and 4 Guinness later! Wow, what a night! “Oh no! Did I send all these text messages?” March 18th 12:59 a.m. – “I love you!” March 18th 1:15 a.m. – “Can I come over?” March 18th 1:32 a.m. – “You are so hot! Xoxo” “Oh, s*#), what did I do? What happened last night? I work with him! I have to SEE him today! What am I going to do?

Growing Your E-Mail List

Growing Your E-Mail List

“We will be promoting your information to thousands of potential customers.” “Your coaching techniques are exactly what we are looking for.” “Do you have a product you can offer with a value of $47?” “Are you willing to send a solo email to your email list?” The phone interview was going well. Being a part of a major promotional event like this is a thrill and I was excited to be a part of it.

2 Ways To Instantly Improve Your Love Life...Pronto!

2 Ways To Instantly Improve Your Love Life...Pronto!

Give me a “Hell yeah!” if - you want to have a drama free relationship. - you want to euthanize insecurity. - you want to end the dating exasperation you have experienced up until now. Hell yeah? Good. We agree. Let’s start with a heart-centered strategy Why? Because you are SO ready to have what you want.