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Choosing Happiness in our Lives

Choosing Happiness in our Lives

Ten years ago, I wrote how we often make the choice of something else less important over our own and our loved ones’ happiness. This article has generated a lot of positive comments over the years apparently because it resonates with people. With another decade under my belt, I’d like to expand a little on the premise I put forward in that original article. Our Lives Are Our Choice

Life after a divorce you didn't want

Life after a divorce you didn't want

A divorce in the best circumstances should be discussed for a long time before it happens. Seeking counseling, trying new ways to communicate, or a trial separation should all take place before the couple agrees that their marriage is over. Fifty percent of all marriages end in divorce, so joining a support group to help deal with the emotions in the aftermath, as well as counseling and mediation, can all make a divorce less painful for both spouses and their children. Although this is the way it should happen, in reality it usually doesn’t.

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Keeping your family together during a divorce can be hard...but certainly not impossible!

8 Ways To Help Your Children Through Divorce

With divorce rates in America topping over 50%, the sad truth is that many parents will be faced with telling their children they are getting divorced. Divorce can have negative effects on children, but based on how it is handled, divorce can also have the potential of making family situations better. Kids are smart. Because the relationship has likely already shown signs of trouble, the news may not come as a complete shock to them. Some kids may even feel a confusing sense of relief. How and when to tell children is an important factor, however. Here are some guidelines to help.

In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes To Loneliness!

In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes To Loneliness!

I know of a woman who so longed to be loved, held, and not feel lonely that she gave her lover, a man she hadn’t known long and knew to be a criminal, all of her life savings—some $43,000, to be exact. He promised, along with his abiding love, that he would give her back her money with interest in only two short months. When she told her friend what she had done her friend pointed out that she had a small child to feed, and reminded her she had just lost her job—and, incidentally, two other boyfriends just like this one.

Get Out of a Relationship Rut

Get Out of a Relationship Rut

Life can really drag a relationship through the mud. You can think that you have the best relationship in the world, until one day you wake up and realize that you haven't really been in love with your partner for awhile. You then start to wonder, "Is there more to a relationship than this?" The answer to this question is that yes, there is more to a relationship than you are experiencing right now.

Is it Wrong to Fantasize About an Open Marriage like Gingrich?

Is it Wrong to Fantasize About an Open Marriage like Gingrich?

Do you ever close your eyes when you are in bed with your husband or boyfriend and think about another guy?    Do you wonder if you could get away with it, could you have an open marriage or an open relationship and hook up with other people, with your partners permission?  Can that ever really work?

Is it Wrong to Fantasize About an Open Marriage like Gingrich?

Is it Wrong to Fantasize About an Open Marriage like Gingrich?

Do you ever close your eyes when you are in bed with your husband or boyfriend and think about another guy?    Do you wonder if you could get away with it, could you have an open marriage or an open relationship and hook up with other people, with your partners permission?  Can that ever really work?

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An extra session in the gym can really pay off in the bedroom!

4 Workout Tips For Better Sex & Orgasms

It is absolutely true that a sex life can be enjoyed regardless of the shape someone is in. My sex life coaching works for a wide range of body types. It is also true that people in better shape have certain advantages in the bedroom. This blog post will cover several of the most relevant muscle groups for both women and men plus the effect they have on your sex and orgasm quality and possibilities.

5 Ways to Test if Your Partner Is Cheating

5 Ways to Test if Your Partner Is Cheating

Have you started getting that gut feeling something isn’t quite right? Do you wonder if he may be up to something with someone else? Well, you don’t have to wonder any longer. There are five ways to test if your partner is cheating and get an answer once and for all. Cheat Test #1: Over the Shoulder When your partner is on his phone, subtly walk behind him and jump to his cheek to give him a kiss.  

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Simply mediating outside can help you discover your true self!

3 Ways To Attract Your Mate Through Self Love

Have you decided to snag that mate, to connect with your soul mate, to be in a relationship no matter what this year. You have a list somewhere of the qualities you desire in your mate. Did you notice that many of these qualities are based on old beliefs? You promised to be more available, more loving, more kind and ad infinitum! You’ve made these promises without loving yourself and discovering who you really are.