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Dating: Why Are People Rejecting Me?

Dating: Why Are People Rejecting Me?

Aidan decided to consult with me because he wanted to get married and have a family. A handsome man in his mid-30s, it was certainly not obvious at first glance why he could not find a partner. However, it didn't take me long to understand why relationships were not working for Aidan. Being with Aidan felt like being alone. He was so not present as to practically be invisible. "Aidan," I asked, "What are you feeling right now?"

Aligning Relationships

Aligning Relationships

Nearly everyone has the ability to view a relationship or situation from the perspective of another person, to imagine what that other is seeing, hearing, feeling, and thinking. In fact, we do this all the time – we are continually assessing others’ states of mind, their intentions, what they might say or do next. It’s a mostly unconscious process, a faculty we are born with and continue to develop as we grow.

Living Together Before Marriage: Is It For You?

Living Together Before Marriage: Is It For You?

There are strong opinions about couples living together before marriage — both pro and con. Many factors need to go into that decision and there’s not one right answer for everyone. The question of living together before marriage comes up at some point in a serious relationship. But if you’re thinking of moving in with a man you’re not engaged to in the hopes that he will come to the decision to marry you, you might want to proceed with caution.

He Wants More and You Want Less

He Wants More and You Want Less

If it hasn’t happened yet, it will soon. You’ve been dating for a few months. You like him and you like spending time with him but he isn’t the man of your dreams. You don’t want to cut him loose but you have no intention of getting too involved and aren’t sure you see a long term future with him. He is really into you and very attentive and loving. Sounds perfect, yes? Just one problem—he wants more, you want less.

A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE G-SPOT CONTROVERSY

A BRIEF HISTORY OF THE G-SPOT CONTROVERSY

Ancient tantric teachings have long specified that all women possess two poles, or hot spots. One is the northern external pole, the clitoris. The other is the less well-known internal southern pole, the G-spot. Throughout this century, however, there has been considerable controversy about whether or not the G-spot even exists. In the past, many self-important male doctors, and even some women, have denied its existence, and the debate over the focal point of female sexual arousal has stirred many scientific arguments.

Sexual Pleasure & Dating 101

Sexual Pleasure & Dating 101

Hey Lovergirl, I am thrilled to announce a very special event that I am hosting with none other than Shara Raqs, Professional Belly Dancer & Radiant Sexuality Expert…   Sexual Pleasure & Dating 101 Shara and I are teaming up to bring you a Free Teleclass on everything you need to know about your sexual pleasure while dating.  Here’s some of what we’ll be discussing…

4 Tips To Make Weight Loss Simple

4 Tips To Make Weight Loss Simple

Weight loss success starts with you getting the right information. Its that simple---wrong information followed leads you to long-term weight gain and fat gain. You MUST know what to do, when to do it and how to do it. Once you have the right information to achieve fat loss and weight loss, you MUST work hard, make adjustments, persevere and make no excuses.

5 Signs It Really Is Love at First Sight

5 Signs It Really Is Love at First Sight

“I knew it the minute I met him.” Claire Huxtable, married 35 years. “I knew I would marry her after the first date.”  Al Bundy, married 40 years. “I met him, I am sure this time, He is The One.” Carrie, 40, single with a string of exciting but broken relationships behind her.

Selling Sex: Should It Be A Crime?

Selling Sex: Should It Be A Crime?

Recently a dozen Secret Service men of the U.S. military had their security clearances suspended after being caught with their pants down in a prostitution scandal while on duty in Colombia. This case also brings with it vast security implications considering they had the President’s travel agenda on a dresser while they were paying sex workers to come into their hotel rooms.