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A Porn Addict Talks to “Orgasm”

A Porn Addict Talks to “Orgasm”

For a sex or porn addict, an orgasm takes on a meaning, an importance, a significance that gets in the way of the rest of his or her life. The natural pleasure becomes confused, can even be lost. In speaking/writing to the desire for an orgasm, this aspect of self, one of our clients moves closer to understanding what is actually driving his need for that one more orgasm … and where that leads.   Here’s what “orgasm” had to say:  

Comforting the Little Orphan Girl

Comforting the Little Orphan Girl

When life hands me a very difficult time, and I feel defeated and overwhelmed, I enter a hopeless and helpless state of mind I think of as The Little Orphan girl. This is the way I felt, as a teen, when I lost nearly my whole family, father, aunts and uncles, between the ages of 12 and 18. Needless to say, I was devastated; and I also survived and eventually, thrived. But little orphan girl doesn’t remember that I made it through – she sinks into despair.