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A glimpse into my own journey : A tale of self discovery

A glimpse into my own journey : A tale of self discovery

Being a therapist of the millennial generation, I know I have an interesting persona in comparison to other therapists. I am well aware of the stereotype, I myself, had created of what a therapist should look and act like before I became one... and I struggled for a long time with how to “play the part.” The obvious, I am seemingly young. Yes, it is true. I do not have any children of my own and I don’t know if I ever intend to. I have never been married and I am still on my parent’s cell phone family plan.

10 Reasons To Finally Stop Dieting (And Do THIS Instead)
Loving the skin you're in WITHOUT a diet? Yes please.

10 Reasons To Finally Stop Dieting (And Do THIS Instead)

You don't want to go on a diet. Who does? And while ice cream and nutella could be enough reasons on their own, expert Leora Fulvia is here to help you out with this list of ten much more legitimate reasons to skip the diet. Learn how to be happy with yourself and love your body...without hating the diet!

man dancing with woman
Man wooing a woman with dancing

Why Courtship Is Better Than Dating: Let Yourself Be Wooed

In today's modern hook-up culture, men and women are having sex before even committing to a relationship with each other. While casual sex can be fun ... courtship is so much better. YourTango Expert Janet Ong Zimmerman offers love and dating advice for women women who want to be wooed (and for gentlemen who are the fabulous, wooing type).

Loving Silently - From Chaos to Calm Without Words

Loving Silently - From Chaos to Calm Without Words

I’ve learned a great parenting trick. It’s just as good as the great party trick of how to not get a hangover (lots of water and Vitamin C). When my son is in the middle of one of his hellacious tantrums and I want to hop on the next bus out of town, I change my inner dialogue.  You know that little voice? The one that says, “Parenting sucks, I want out NOW.”  I change the running dialogue to, “I love you. I love you. I love you.”  I think the words as I say nothing, grit my teeth and smile softly.

Silent Treatment is Actually a Good Thing

Silent Treatment is Actually a Good Thing

Why is it that we run away from what we need the most? Even though I crave silence and need it sometimes more than sleep, I don’t always know how to achieve it, let alone know what to do with it when I get it. So then I fill up the silent moment with busyness, random senseless movement. Sound familiar? I know for a fact, I need part of my day to include solitude, aloneness, a period of stillness. Quiet. That's where the miracles happen.

Four Different Ways to Fill Your Empty Cup

Four Different Ways to Fill Your Empty Cup

Just like there are four states of presence there are four ways to refill your cup. Let’s look at those ways now. Physical - How you move your body, what you feed it and how you care for it. Mental - The thoughts that fill your mind. The activities that inspire and motivate. Your ability to relax. Emotional - Your feelings lead you to where you need to be. The relationships in your life.

Never Married-Over 40 A Red Flag?!

Never Married-Over 40 A Red Flag?!

Dear FearLess Love, I met a woman the other day who referred to me as a "red flag" – that is someone she shouldn’t date. And why? Because I’m in my late forties and have never married. She said I would be a “better risk” if I was “at least “divorced? Ouch! What do you think? I’ve spent a lot of time working, traveling, and building my company. I’m currently single but have had girlfriends here and there. I just haven’t met the right woman.