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Get back the sexual intimacy in your relationship

Get back the sexual intimacy in your relationship

Marriage is a partnership and that includes making each other happy sexually, not by having sex but by creating sexual intimacy. Anyone can have sex or perform the act of intercourse, but sexual intimacy is another aspect that is often over looked. As a clinical sexologist and marriage counselor that is the area of marriage that I help couples to improve upon. Once the sexual intimacy is brought back into the marriage, the couple will feel a renewed sense of closeness in the relationship.

Is Finding Mr. Right Like Winning the Lottery?

Is Finding Mr. Right Like Winning the Lottery?

I remember having many conversations with my girlfriends about what we thought was the statistical likelihood of finding our very own Mr. Right. You see, like many of us, back then I believed there was only one single Mr. Right meant for me; my soul mate; the one. And after looking at our ever growing lists of must haves, and how many men in any given population would meet those criteria, we all came to the conclusion that our odds of meeting him were not greater than about one in ten million.

A Blueprint For The "Perfect" Date

A Blueprint For The "Perfect" Date

1. Blueprint for the “Perfect” Date Throughout the years, men have always asked me: “How do I make that first date as perfect as she expects it to be?” (After all, first impressions are everything, right?) Granted, every date is different, but I’ve come up with a checklist of some of my favorite tactics that leave her glowing at the end of the night… In fact, these are so good, she’ll be texting or calling you within the next 24 hours expecting more of the same!

Whats Wrong With Dating Online?

Whats Wrong With Dating Online?

What’s wrong with online dating? Nothing, honestly. It works for some people. I know couples who are very happy together that have met online. Some people enjoy browsing 1000′s of photos and reading 1000′s of profiles to choose a few singles to email.  

Romantic Date Idea (Chicago) #362

Romantic Date Idea (Chicago) #362

For our Chicago Romantic Date Idea collection- I’ve stumbled across “The Violet Hour.” Located in Wicker Park, the store front of this venue might make your date cringe, but once inside you’ll be transported to a dimly lit, romantic venue that serves us amazing craft cocktails.  Kind of like you- a little rough on the outside, but surprisingly romantic on the inside!  

14 Reasons Why You're Still Single [EXPERT]
Ladies, would it kill you to put on some makeup?

14 Reasons Why You're Still Single

It's a Friday night. Your girlfriends all have date nights planned with their boyfriends. They're going to dinner, the movies or staying in and spending time together. And you? You're alone and it doesn't take long for you to wonder why.

When Parents Disagree on Discipline

When Parents Disagree on Discipline

When Parents Disagree on Discipline   Who hasn’t had this experience? You’re right in the middle of disciplining your child.Emotions are running hot. You give your child aconsequence for the misbehavior and your spousesteps in and disagrees with how you’re handling the situation. You feel criticized, unsupported and upset. The whole thing goes downhill from there.