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Kinky is the new vanilla?

Kinky is the new vanilla?

And, I for one, LOVE IT. I just don't think that any adult should have any shame or embarassment when a it comes to their own sexual expression. Is there a crazy amount of hype around "50 Shades of Grey" and the kinky sex? Hell yes. You know it's a frenzy when Barbara Walters wears a Black leather jacked on "The View" and bring up the mommy porn that is sweeping the nation.

Is a Medically-Supervised Diet Right for You?

Is a Medically-Supervised Diet Right for You?

You want to look beautiful for your wedding or some other event, and you want a guarantee of losing a certain number of pounds.  The truth is, the only way to achieve that is by doing an extreme diet that severely cuts your calories and having something help you to maintain that diet to reach your goal.  Which is why the feeding tube diet has its advocates and Jessica Schnaider chose it for herself.  But is it – or any other medic

Faking an orgasm; not healthy for mind, body, or soul

Faking an orgasm; not healthy for mind, body, or soul

The first time I ever witnessed a good impression of a fake orgasm was a movie called, “When Harry met Sally.” Most of us saw it, and most of us remember our reaction. We may have blushed especially if we were a woman, because most women watching it have faked an orgasm. The interesting part to me was men didn’t seem alarmed.

20 Rules For Your First Online Date [EXPERT]
First date rule of thumb: Don't grill him! Remember, it's a date, not an interview.

20 Rules For Your First Online Date

Let's face it, if you aren't nervous before a first date, you probably don't have a pulse. There's so much pressure. What if he doesn't like me? What if I don't like him? What if I say the wrong thing? Sure, you've been hitting it off over email and on the phone, but a face-to-face encounter is a whole other ball of wax. Take these tips from our experts to ensure that your next first date goes flawlessly.

Why I became a Health Coach and now Pay-It-Forward

Why I became a Health Coach and now Pay-It-Forward

BodyVision Health Coaching was started from a passion to help young adults improve their lives with the fundamental tools of lasting well-being. More than a comprehensive list of tips and tricks, a healthy lifestyle is truly achieved when you learn empowering methods that you can customize and use again and again. A sense of personal responsibility, self-love, and simply ‘getting the job done’ will form your foundation to living a life of design, purpose, and joy! So who am I to be able to guide you on this journey? Well, here is my story.

25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist

25 Benefits Of Working With The Bedroom Joyologist

For The Conscious Woman With a Conservative Background I have checked these off my list (although always working on it!) and now I'm here to help you do the same. Wake up with more excitement for the day to come. Experience more motivation to take better care of yourself. More passion, purpose and direction in life.

4 Tips To Help You Manage Your Tone

4 Tips To Help You Manage Your Tone

More than I write about this, I see it so I figure I should write even more about it. Tone. Yes, I’m talking about the tone in which you’re speaking to your mate. :) The moment I sit down with a couple, I can automatically get an idea of what their communication is like based on their tone with each other. It literally cuts my work in half when they can argue…with a pleasant tone. How often do I just get to do half the work? Practically never. Here are 4 tips that I have seen help couples with tone:

Don't See Romantic Potential...But Is It OK To Continue?

Don't See Romantic Potential...But Is It OK To Continue?

QUESTION I met a guy last year online. While we seemed to have little in common, he expressed interest and I responded. After communicating via email and phone for a couple weeks, we met in-person. While meeting didn't change my initial impression regarding having little in common, it was an enjoyable evening and I did feel attracted to him.

Comforting the Little Orphan Girl

Comforting the Little Orphan Girl

When life hands me a very difficult time, and I feel defeated and overwhelmed, I enter a hopeless and helpless state of mind I think of as The Little Orphan girl. This is the way I felt, as a teen, when I lost nearly my whole family, father, aunts and uncles, between the ages of 12 and 18. Needless to say, I was devastated; and I also survived and eventually, thrived. But little orphan girl doesn’t remember that I made it through – she sinks into despair.