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3 Steps To Spice Up Your Long-Term Relationship [EXPERT]
Has your relationship lost its sizzle?

3 Steps To Spice Up Your Long-Term Relationship

A committed relationship comes with more than a few perks, including someone to snuggle with at night, communication that does not require words, a body that you know so well, freedom from those awkward "safe sex" talks and the stress of dating. How do you enjoy all these goodies while keeping the passion and spark that brought you both together in the first place? Why does it seem harder to ignite the fire the longer you have been together?

How To Keep Self-Doubt At Bay

How To Keep Self-Doubt At Bay

In a recent questionnaire, a participant named his biggest obstacle to weight loss as follows: ‘Overcoming Habits’. To paraphrase a saying, first you make your habits, and then your habits make you, so, where to start to make a change? Transforming a habit takes time, practice, and accessing inner motivators that support you on your journey.

Why You Shouldn't Update Your Relationship Status [EXPERT]
Is your relationship "Facebook official?"

Why You Shouldn't Update Your Relationship Status

It has come to my attention that my generation believes if a relationship is not "Facebook official," then the relationship is not real. This means that if the "in a relationship" box is not checked off on a profile, then the relationship is nonexistent. When did Facebook take over our lives?

Are Women Really Sexually Stronger Than Men?

Are Women Really Sexually Stronger Than Men?

The idea that women have greater sexual strength than men always seemed very much in line with my own experience, but it’s very difficult for some men to accept this premise. Whenever I bring up this point in my workshops, invariably several men will vigorously challenge me. Of course, I understand why this is so. It is the nature of men with their strong male egos to want to be recognized as the stronger of the species and intelligent women generally recognize this manly trait, and wisely make no issue of it.

How To Satisfy Your Man In 4 Steps
Be the best he's ever had.

How To Satisfy Your Man In 4 Steps

If you really want to learn how to please your man, there are some fool-proof tips that he's going to love. Try these out tonight and make him one happy guy!

12 Best Pieces of Dating Advice

12 Best Pieces of Dating Advice

People ask me all the time for dating tips and advice, and I definitely have some current favorites. Whether you’re back on the dating scene after a divorce/difficult breakup/death of a spouse; whether you were plain old dumped and are afraid to have your heart broken again; are a single parent; are intimidated by online dating; wouldn’t know where to start or even what to say if you saw someone you liked; or are simply starting over, try these twelve tips on for size.

Women: Being Unavailable Versus Playing A Game

Women: Being Unavailable Versus Playing A Game

When I am working with women moving on from a relationship and getting ready to date again, I encourage them to be a little less available than they had been in their last relationship. Inevitably, they say to me, "I don't want to play games. I want to be who I am." My question to them is: well, why is it that “who you are” is someone always ready to drop things and run when a man wants your attention? Why do you think that anyone would find that attractive?

 Emotions as Weather

Emotions as Weather

Although most people in the country wouldn’t agree, we in Southern California have been having extreme weather conditions for us: rain and mudslides. You could almost say we’re so used to mild conditions that we become afraid of what others would call “real” weather—weather wimps. Being afraid, ashamed of, or embarrassed by your feelings is like being afraid of the weather, because emotions (tears, panic attacks, angry outbursts, withdrawal, depression, elation, lust, romantic excitement, euphoria) are the weather conditions of the inner self.

Mind Sex and Seduction

Mind Sex and Seduction

Mind sex can be very powerful in a marriage or relationship and the art of seduction for a husband to get his wife to desire and want him is part of mind sex. What is mind sex? Mind sex is about when it comes to a women's mind and body, many times men forget that a woman’s body is very connected to her mind. In order for her to have an orgasm; she has to have her mind and body work together.